Tends to isolate socially then takes self pity for being lonely. Self imposed restrictions on connecting with friends when you could have really solid long lasting friendships if you just came out of your shell(cell) more and remained consistent with people you like & care about.
You're a "well actually..." person with your closest people😂 because you want them to have the correct info and you also want them to know how smart and cultured you are. You also probably love unprovoked intellectual debates even when no one is in the mood for that😂
Well actually, did you know, that this is all accurate and true? lmao why does being annoying have to be so much fun 😂 a little unprovoked intellectual debate with the right person is a delectable treat!
And Lisa Simpson! She has such Aquarius energy lmao. My partner is an Aquarius Jupiter on his dsc and loves to debate his favorite people because he truly believes it makes him grow closer to & build trust with people 😂 he's kinda right sometimes but it pisses my Leo mercury ass off
It is not something I expect anymore, I can tell you that! I've been thinking about essential dignity as privilege. Jupiter in Cancer has a hard time with the morally defunct because they consider themselves morally privileged. One might expect dignity to help with that but it's the other way around
I GET IT! I'm a Pisces Jupiter and I am the same way lol. I want the world to be a utopia, if everyone was just kind and compassionate *like me* (🙄) but I know realistically it never will be, and I have a hard time accepting it lol. Jupiter privilege. Hope your Jupiter return this year is lovely!
I might need it cuz the chart is pretty intense, ruled by 11H Venus in Leo opposing Pluto rx in Aquarius. Also trining Saturn + Neptune conjunction (by a degree) in Aries. 2° orb on the Libra moon opposing Chiron 😅
I've read that retrograde planets are more inwards facing, which is the explanation Ive appreciated the most. With Jupiter that could mean possibly holding yourself to high standards, or your family, in Cancer
Yeah exactly, its inward so you're a bit harder on yourself, like you said high expectations for the self, like you expect yourself to always be giving & caring, to always be happy & flowing, to always be lucky & have things be easy for yourself
Stingy with your money & sharing cause you're afraid of being taken advantage of! Could be an overspender, especially splurging on nice things for yourself, but hesitant to spend on others.
The first thought that came to mind was Miranda Priestly from devil wears Prada lmao. Hard ass manager at work energy. Very blunt. Quick to say out loud "i don't care."
I *always* have to self-check
in conversations. Like, always.
Compromise? What is that?😌
What saves me is that it is
sextile my Venus-Mars in ♊️,
so I negotiate really well, & I’m
usually genuinely curious about
the other person in conversation,
so I ask questions & really listen.👂🏼
Real! I'm a Gemini Venus! I always worry my Leo mercury comes off as boasty and that I'm talking too much and not listening enough but my Gemini Venus has me asking sooo many questions because I am genuinely very curious and I want the whole story with all the details!
With my Mars, I have to be careful about sounding like I am a pesky reporter. I can become more natural with it after I’ve known someone a while. I can be a bit too enthusiastic with people I’ve only known a short time, and it throws them. I’ve learned to use the Venus charm to soften that.
Your family probably thinks you're the family clown and the only thing you take seriously is being the most unserious (but you probably hold the family together with humor and they probably appreciate it)
Housewife/househusband/housespouse energy. Sensitive af with your family. Family peacekeeper! Even when arguments and confrontation are necessary to work something out!
Ooo that's a tough placement. Family/parent trauma & wounds that propel you forward and far away from & detached from family or any kind of safe & stable living dynamic with chosen family. You come off distant & surface level because you're way too in your head always ruminating about the past.
** or hyper focused on the future and where you're heading next that you never stay in one place and just exist in the present where you are and be present with who you're with. Always buzzing off to the next thing and never enjoying what you have in the moment.
I love scorpios I just hate how they hide their depth. As a very Cancer-Pisces person I'm always like girl your brooding is so obvious I see right through your idgaf facade, you're a softie just like me!
It's annoying but I also love Aquarius for this!! Especially Aquarius moons, yall are the real trend setters. Yall truly have the best taste because you love what's weird, subversive & rejected & find it cool way before it becomes cool, but by then you're onto the next cool weird underground thing!
People find you to be unreachable, unapproachable, out of touch bc you're too in your own world. Your style of connecting is too idealistic, fantastical, not grounded in reality. You like going into your isolated dream world to create & do work but you neglect other parts of your life in the process
I'd say that's a much more prominent theme in your life than someone else might have. Your 12th house has 2 personal planets, putting emphasis on that area of your life. For example, I don't have any 12th house placements, so I don't experience this specifically.
Really intense & passionate & deep whirlwind romances that fizzle out quickly when the connection isn't sustained by continued & consistent intimacy & vulnerability because you lose interst when you burn thru 6-12 months of relationship steps/phases in just 2 months 😂
I mean, I've been in years long relationships, but it took me awhile to get there. You live with your chart your whole life, so you do learn to overcome those issues and work within your limits
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I might need it cuz the chart is pretty intense, ruled by 11H Venus in Leo opposing Pluto rx in Aquarius. Also trining Saturn + Neptune conjunction (by a degree) in Aries. 2° orb on the Libra moon opposing Chiron 😅
Jupiter squares Mars in Libra! 🔥 🚒
(I’m scared I seen them other comments LMAO)
decan II, bound of 🪐
I *always* have to self-check
in conversations. Like, always.
Compromise? What is that?😌
What saves me is that it is
sextile my Venus-Mars in ♊️,
so I negotiate really well, & I’m
usually genuinely curious about
the other person in conversation,
so I ask questions & really listen.👂🏼
With my Mars, I have to be careful about sounding like I am a pesky reporter. I can become more natural with it after I’ve known someone a while. I can be a bit too enthusiastic with people I’ve only known a short time, and it throws them. I’ve learned to use the Venus charm to soften that.
Mars Rx in Scorpio in the 1H (12° Mercury bound)
*cries in Scorpionic disbelief*