I HAAAATE this narrative of “ban kink porn coz it promotes real life sexual violence” NO. You know what actually causes that? Violent / uncaring men (mostly), sexual shame and repression in society, lack of education and awareness around sex, BDSM and enthusiastic consent. - ThreadSky

blackrose4thee.bsky.social • 60 days ago

I HAAAATE this narrative of “ban kink porn coz it promotes real life sexual violence”

NO.

You know what actually causes that? Violent / uncaring men (mostly), sexual shame and repression in society, lack of education and awareness around sex, BDSM and enthusiastic consent.

Reposted from Mike Stabile

She acknowledges that it may all be consensual ... but that's of little importance. Other people might get the wrong idea.

She's positioned personal consensual sexual behavior as dangerous.

www.bbc.com/news/article...

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goodgirljessica68.bsky.social•59 days ago

I agree. Violent video games don’t make you violent either. You already have that inclination if you are violent. The game or the porn didn’t make you that way

blackrose4thee.bsky.social•58 days ago

Exactly!!

botsnack.bsky.social•59 days ago

Puritan-based society where it's a *joke* about how parents can't talk about sex + freely available porn catering to shock = not great.

blackrose4thee.bsky.social•58 days ago

I don’t believe kink porn is necessarily catered to shock tho. It’s genuinely arousing to some ppl in the same way cishet porn is to most men.

Also, I think governments should be stepping in to introduce consent discourse into school curriculum & expanding sex education to include more than
1/2

blackrose4thee.bsky.social•58 days ago

2/2
just STIs & pregnancy.

Yes, it should be a parents responsibility to teach their kids about sex & have open healthy discussions around it all, but it’s very obvious that a lot of parents don’t or won’t do that and many adults themselves aren’t even fully informed on what consent truly is either

botsnack.bsky.social•58 days ago

There's an ocean between the kink community and the biggest porn producers.

Stuff like crash pad, 4 chambers, is all marginal with respect to the market. Even https://kink.com had consent issues.

amada-wr.bsky.social•59 days ago

So much communication goes into kink that vanilla peeps can fucking learn from it.

Omg this is engaging

blackrose4thee.bsky.social•58 days ago

So very true. During my kink journey since 2018, I’ve noticed SUCH a huge difference between how kinksters treat me as opposed to “vanilla” people.

Kinksters are almost always more open, honest, informative, easier to talk with and have a clear understanding of consent and how important it is.

amada-wr.bsky.social•58 days ago

I left an abusive ex and ended up meeting my current partners who are super supportive and sweet and loving and good at communicating at a kink event

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