crazy to think someone i probably considered my favorite person and friend group around them dumped me over some asshole dnd fanatic guy because he didnt like me like damn i guess not liking dnd is my biggest flaw
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okay the first time i got dropped dumped was kinda deserved because i think theres something wrong with my brain and i was unmedicated and i think i needed a callout but i wish they ever addressed my behavior to me before actually dropping me but the other time i legit didnt do anything wrong
outside of being severly autistic about viego and like again i now always kindly ask people to let me know if something i do bothers them and they never do and still get mad at me and like bro im growing as a person why does this keep happening
people never take it seriously when you tell them to cummunicate straightforwardly bc you cant pick up indirect clues that well. and then are mad when you didnt pick up on clues and they didnt tell you like ive literally WARNED YOU PEOPLE-
*pat pat* its okay oomf, maybe it will get better one day
im trying not to think aboiut it but it actually still kinda hurts when i see posts on either social media about them having the best time ever and being besties and aughhh anyway babys first vent on this socmed back to league
I have lost a lot of close friends over the years in similar situations. It sucks that it happens, but there is no controlling it.
Not every friend is meant for forever.
That being said, I'll go beat up that dnd nerd if you want. What's he gonna do, throw some dice at me? lmao
Cast fireball?
I lowkey understand, man. I've definitely gotten a much better handle of catching myself / observing myself as I interact with others in general bc of my therapy and changing meds, but I've definitely been in situations where you legit just... have no idea what you're probably doing is pissing
others off and they expect you to know because of social cues n shit. It sucks! Like yeah, a wakeup call sometimes helps your brain reset/register stuff, but it's always something that will make you feel terrible about yourself, when you deserve to be treated kindly.
i get that not everyone gets along with everyone / "not everyone has to like you" but it does hurt when at some point you actually didnt do anything wrong, always was there for people, tried engaging with their new passions and tried to talk this out but just poof, others leave you too
God, yeah. It’s the inherent people pleaser inside you saying that despite it all, you want to be able to be someone likable for everyone. But it’s not your fault when someone decides to not reciprocate the energy, time & consideration you put in. And I’ve had group chats I’ve had for YEARS drop me
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*pat pat* its okay oomf, maybe it will get better one day
Not every friend is meant for forever.
That being said, I'll go beat up that dnd nerd if you want. What's he gonna do, throw some dice at me? lmao
Cast fireball?
I wish you only the best - missed reading your posts :3