So for those of you who don’t know I’m pretty new to the out/gay/queer thing (actually dating men not just hooking up with them) and I’m full of questions… here’s another one: Is it suspect when a guy only wants to talk on Grindr? - ThreadSky

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eastc0astryan.bsky.social • 99 days ago

So for those of you who don’t know I’m pretty new to the out/gay/queer thing (actually dating men not just hooking up with them) and I’m full of questions… here’s another one:

Is it suspect when a guy only wants to talk on Grindr?

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jeffyadar.bsky.social•99 days ago

I don’t like to give my number until we actually have a plan to meet or are meeting. I like having the pic for reference and also some weirdo doesn’t have your number if things go south. But I’m talking scruff because Grindr is too buggy to even use anymore.

eastc0astryan.bsky.social•99 days ago

Appreciate this. Situation is he’s in town for a night and is very interested but I have plans. I said let’s exchange info because if my plans suck like - Grindr is glitchy and if you’re only here one night I’d hate to miss the chance.

I guess I’ve just never had issues with someone having my #.

jeffyadar.bsky.social•99 days ago

Yeah I guess in that case it would depend. But I personally don’t think it’s weird he doesn’t want to, just would suck if you couldn’t connect because of it!

wvre.bsky.social•99 days ago

i think it depends on how long you've been talking to the guy and what app you wanted to take the convo to!

eastc0astryan.bsky.social•99 days ago

Okay so I offered Snapchat or texting. Haha…

tapeworthy.bsky.social•99 days ago

ive learned so much from this thread

ericscotianboi.bsky.social•99 days ago

In my opinion, yes. There are dudes who are looking for a relationship on Grindr but I find when they don’t want to take the conversation off Grindr it’s a big sign they aren’t looking to date you.

eastc0astryan.bsky.social•99 days ago

It’s not even just the date thing - I find it easier to make actual plans. A lot of people make fun of Snapchat but honestly it’s the best way to verify someone is who they say they are.

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