part of the reason i have remained single most of my life has been because all men have ever wanted from me was sex... and that was it, never really considering everything else i had to give and well... i think im going to end up single forever at this point. - ThreadSky

jaxxology.bsky.social • 7 days ago

part of the reason i have remained single most of my life has been because all men have ever wanted from me was sex... and that was it, never really considering everything else i had to give and well... i think im going to end up single forever at this point.

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talnova.bsky.social•6 days ago

this is so wise. emotionally mature and intelligent men are so painfully rare. i have dated *one* in 30 years.

jaxxology.bsky.social•7 days ago

basically have always been objectified and never seen as something worthy of being with. it never helped i was hypersexual most of my life either and had to basically go celibate for a few years just to heal from the damage it did to me.

jaxxology.bsky.social•7 days ago

and all this time ive basically worked on myself so much to be the best partner material i could be and im still not good enough for anyone but at this point... i think i can live with it.

syddd0.bsky.social•7 days ago

My bestie is going through something super similar. I don't understand why men objectify women to this point. I don't understand why it's such a universal problem. You DO have so much to offer!! Take care and you got this.

roomustdie.bsky.social•7 days ago

Love is always worth waiting for. You're young and you've done amazing for yourself to get to this point. Having spent your time looking inward and working on yourself is the most you can do and you have every reason to be proud of that and understand your worth.

jaxxology.bsky.social•7 days ago

yes thats why i dont necessarily focus negatively too much on it now. theyre just reflections at this point. but i guess its good to talk about this things openly too so others can see they are not alone i guess.

supernerddaniel.bsky.social•7 days ago

I'm so sorry, Jax, that's completely unfair to you that guys have treated you like that, you deserve so much better 🫂🫂🫂

jaxxology.bsky.social•7 days ago

its really whatever. ive never been appreciated and never have had the opportunity to experience being in love. i think maybe some of us are not meant for it? even though its what i yearn for deep down. to pour my overflowing glass into someone elses.

supernerddaniel.bsky.social•7 days ago

I feel that last bit so fucking hard, you have no idea 😑

jaxxology.bsky.social•7 days ago

oh well! i mean what can we do other than contienue to work on ourselves? im doing my part. maybe the day will come. hard to not be bitter that people that dont work on themselves are always in relationships. but those are the ppl that do it for the wrong reasons. so hard pass anyways.

rulyrical78.bsky.social•6 days ago

If you are able to see that it shows you have a good head on ur shoulders. Only reason I use the term Single is bc of stating your Marital Status. Otherwise ur never really single. Family, friends irl & friends here. So ur never really alone just trying to find that missing piece of ur heart & soul

joshmichaelbowden.bsky.social•6 days ago

Ive been single and celebate for almost 5 years, just healing and workin on myself after quite a bit of trauma.

One thing to remember, and this is very important, you are worthy of respect, love, and meaningful relationships (romantic and otherwise) regardless of whatever you have to heal from

peachago.bsky.social•7 days ago

Honestly it’s fucking TIRING that that’s all they want regardless of how they act in the beginning. Do most men not have empathy or see women as people?

jaxxology.bsky.social•7 days ago

i mean probably not? lol

laura.is.goblin.fyi•6 days ago

Honestly, women. I dated a woman(online only as she lives in Germany). She was so sweet. We had so many deep conversations. We really got to know each other. Only reason we broke up was because she is so far away. We are still friends to this day!

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