That girl in a trauma bond relationship be like "I just love this man so much I don't think I can live without him if I dump him" whole time her pros & cons list looks like this
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I knew i girl that said she was still in love with a guy that tried to murder her... the dude got 10 years in prison for it and is probably gonna be in there longer cus he is a violent psychopath, and she is still in love with him... i will never understand.
Last i heard, her parents kinda did an intervention and gave her an ultimatum saying she either stops getting in contact (and prison visits) with him or they will close her out from the entire family (the whole family agreed to this). I still see her posting stuff on IG with her fam so there's that.
I had an unhealthy attachment to my toxic cheater ex & cried every day bc he was the center of my whole life & leaving felt like jumping off a cliff. You have to find yourself all over again afterwards & learn self love. Especially if they manipulate you into thinking no one else will ever love you
I kinda went through the same thing with my ex-girlfriend. She wasn't that toxic, but she cheated on me quite a few times behind my back, and since at the time she was all i had, i felt like i still needed her. I was an idiot then and glad i have grown into a better person than she was.
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