TW: sa(??) need help i have a bunch of conflicting feelings about what happened still and idk,, i want to bring it up but how? i fear i would get blamed for it and be told im making it a big deal then again i dont want him to make himself feel like the worst person ever. i love him but im just 💔💔 - ThreadSky

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deerghost.bsky.social • 10 days ago

TW: sa(??) need help

i have a bunch of conflicting feelings about what happened still and idk,, i want to bring it up but how? i fear i would get blamed for it and be told im making it a big deal

then again i dont want him to make himself feel like the worst person ever. i love him but im just 💔💔

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deerghost.bsky.social•10 days ago

i said “i don’t want to do it” then said “im not in the mood” yet it still happened bc i let it. idk if it counts as anything bc i didn’t say “no” directly. i told him twice i didn’t really want to do it yet i allowed it bc i didn’t want him to be disappointed (?).

deerghost.bsky.social•10 days ago

when i first told him i didn’t really want to do it he said “you’re boring… just kidding!” and idk i guess after i told him the second time i gave up bc i didn’t want him to be upset/disappointed.

i been super depressed these past days because i can’t stop thinking about it.

deerghost.bsky.social•10 days ago

he also knows i been sa’ed in the past as i opened up to him about that in january (2025). i dont know if this helps with anything but yeah🥀

idk if this is sa or if its not and im just being dramatic. any answers are appreciated please just help me on what this is or what i should do😞.

kungull.bsky.social•10 days ago

I don't really have much good advice but you should one hundred percent tell this to someone you trust and distance yourself from this guy. This sounds like SA from what you've described

deerghost.bsky.social•10 days ago

hh idk how im gonna distance myself from him since he’s my bf but i definitely will tell someone. thank you you so much😞.

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