Random self improvement thoughts:
I'm trying to get better at accepting when others are generous towards me. Which is to say I'm practicing:
1) Trying not to be suspicious of them.
2) Just thanking them & being grateful.
3) Not apologizing as an immediate reflex.
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I'm trying to get better at accepting when others are generous towards me. Which is to say I'm practicing:
1) Trying not to be suspicious of them.
2) Just thanking them & being grateful.
3) Not apologizing as an immediate reflex.
1/2
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5) Telling myself not to feel bad I can't gift back; they know my circumstances.
Easier said than done for me. I've had people use 'generosity' to try to establish a hold over me before, which just drove home a lifetime of training that accepting gifts is bad.