I have a problem, something that I need to solve, but I'm scared of hurting someone else in the process I don't wanna hurt anyone but by not solving this problem I'm hurting myself instead and I really don't know what to do I hate hurting others but hurting myself is not fun - ThreadSky

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neidrakos.slugcat.me • 3 days ago

I have a problem, something that I need to solve, but I'm scared of hurting someone else in the process

I don't wanna hurt anyone but by not solving this problem I'm hurting myself instead and I really don't know what to do

I hate hurting others but hurting myself is not fun

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neidrakos.slugcat.me•3 days ago

And then there's also the chance that the other person has the same feeling as I do and it would actually hurt no one, but how do I know if they do, how do I even know if I'm making the right decision and the right choice of words

neidrakos.slugcat.me•3 days ago

Everyone always says that I should always put myself first, but what if that's not the right choice? Or what if I end up doing more harm than good

The solution to my problem seems to be good for everyone, but what if not? What if it's only good for me? Is it really okay to put myself first?

neidrakos.slugcat.me•3 days ago

I am scared of this problem, I am scared of the solution and I am also scared of doing nothing about it and just hurting myself in the process

I just feel like no matter what I do it's gonna be a wrong choice

floketti.bsky.social•3 days ago

Idk if this will sound right, but... I myself hurt (and still do but I try to do it rightfully) a lot of people to avoid many bad things from happening, recently I just cut someone off because I was uncomfortable after a few personal problems and just told them to move on

sleepingcuga.bsky.social•3 days ago

This can go different ways but in the end, you choose how you deal with that situation. No one's going to hurt you when you make your choice. Just do what you believe is right.

If this helps idk if saying this will help somehow

floketti.bsky.social•3 days ago

Wish I could help but taking decisions like these are VERY circumstancial unless if you're someone who prioritizes themselves almost all of the time

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