And... also hoping that while I am destroying my reputation that it will capture the attention of someone who might help me learn to get along with the person like everyone and their brother does.
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Unfortunately, it seems that not one person with a friendship with both me and the Blur in question, either A) actually looks at what I'm doing on my socials often enough to realize I'm self destructing, or B) wants to waste their time checking in on me.
Thank you for sharing what's going on.
I'm just a dumb dog so I don't have any one-size-fits-all answers. I will say that it sounds like you're putting too much mental energy into social media. Folks have a lot going on that might not be reflected in their online presence.
And self-destructive cycles are easy to do but aren't well known for making you feel better (even if it does make for a great Nine Inch Nails album).
It can be frustrating and isolating to be in a shitty mindset but I personally don't think that's worth taking out on yourself or others.
Lastly, I think people in general are bad about checking in on their friends. Honestly, if there's someone in particular you're waiting for the "You ok?" msg from, take the lead and reach out to them first.
My DMs are always open too if you need me to bark at you there 🐶
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I'm just a dumb dog so I don't have any one-size-fits-all answers. I will say that it sounds like you're putting too much mental energy into social media. Folks have a lot going on that might not be reflected in their online presence.
It can be frustrating and isolating to be in a shitty mindset but I personally don't think that's worth taking out on yourself or others.
My DMs are always open too if you need me to bark at you there 🐶