I still think that the ring is on my finger & then I remember that it's not... I still struggle to come to terms with the fact that the Marriage is over... I'm still grieving all of this even after one year. It also affects my confidence. I know it's not my fault, but I wonder if it is. 💔. - ThreadSky

thedementedraven.bsky.social • 8 days ago

I still think that the ring is on my finger & then I remember that it's not...

I still struggle to come to terms with the fact that the Marriage is over...

I'm still grieving all of this even after one year.

It also affects my confidence.

I know it's not my fault, but I wonder if it is.

💔.

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datfoogamma.bsky.social•8 days ago

I don't know all the details but I assure you that you aren't to blame.

I learned this during my divorce last year: people grow over time but sometimes they grow apart too.

I wish nothing but healing and growth for you.

You are a kind and good person who is worthy of love. Never forget that 💜

thedementedraven.bsky.social•7 days ago

Thank you. ❤️ I don't think it's my fault either, but then I get these thoughts wondering if it might be and could I have done more? I tend to beat myself up mentally aha!

He felt it was time to go. That it wasn't working our for him anymore. It wasn't hostile & we're still friends, but it hurts so.

shogo67.bsky.social•8 days ago

I feel you, Raven. Grieving is not a fun journey, but I hope that your heart will heal in time. ❤️‍🩹

thedementedraven.bsky.social•7 days ago

I bet! :( Thank you Shogo. That truely means the World. ❤️

aggyoverdrive.bsky.social•8 days ago

It isn't your fault, and you are better off having moved on. That isn't to say a divorce isn't a great time to work on yourself to feel better with yourself, it is. But the divorce itself; people just grow apart. It happends to tons of people every day.

You will meet someone you'll be happier with.

thedementedraven.bsky.social•7 days ago

He felt that it was nolonger working out, and him being honest was the right thing to do.

I have no ill will towards him. We're both still friends.

I know it's not my fault, but I look back and wonder if I could have done more.

I'm terrible for beating myself up, haha.

Thanks Btw. ❤️

aggyoverdrive.bsky.social•7 days ago

Yeah, you're committing violence upon yourself, laying this at your own feet in any capacity.

And I don't like it when you're violent to the innocent! 😅

I meant what I said though; the one you'll meet is going to be tons better for you. And THAT you deserve every bit of.

🥰

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