I don't talk about it much, but gosh it can get really disheartening being single. I'm lucky and have lots of people I love and get to play with, but I just miss that feeling of... Being in love. Being cared for. Being littled. 😓 And I don't understand why I can't find someone that's right for me. - ThreadSky

obknoxious.bsky.social • 92 days ago

I don't talk about it much, but gosh it can get really disheartening being single. I'm lucky and have lots of people I love and get to play with, but I just miss that feeling of... Being in love. Being cared for. Being littled. 😓 And I don't understand why I can't find someone that's right for me.

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akaravedog.bsky.social•92 days ago

Feels

thepaddedprince1.bsky.social•91 days ago

Being single can be great at times, but I’ll agree there are moments when I wish there were someone to wake up next to (aside from my cute plushies) and that special bubble of intimate connections that two people share. Been single for 10 years now. Being an ABDL.. I just can’t take the rejection 🫠

denoteboom13.bsky.social•91 days ago

You know my story. I'm there with you. It sucks. Dating unsuccessfully sucks. Being alone sucks. But you've been working on yourself. I didn't even know that you could improve yourself but you have been and that's sexy. And it shows.

denoteboom13.bsky.social•91 days ago

Maybe we'll just have to put together an ABDL singles night. An all-ABDL Dating Game? Diapered speed dating? I don't see how that could ever go poorly.

boundbabyboy.bsky.social•91 days ago

Mood ^^^

pupkakashi.bsky.social•91 days ago

Feeling this

spookybabyboi.bsky.social•91 days ago

Same

anodddl.bsky.social•91 days ago

Having these exact thought recently myself…

soggy-tech.bsky.social•91 days ago

I know that pain, someone will show up when you least expect it though. The last thing I was expecting was my little cutie to ask me out but here we are. Hang in there, hang out with friends and have fun, your match will come along in time

flashdiaper.bsky.social•91 days ago

Can agree with this my last relationship came about when I least expected it we were together for 11yrs we are now friends but yeah hang big Hugs

thekinkygrad.bsky.social•91 days ago

dominodlguy.bsky.social•91 days ago

I definitely feel this. It sucks! Being in love is also often feeling more hopeful about things - they go hand in hand pretty well.

obknoxious.bsky.social•91 days ago

That's a big part of it too. Making plans for the future, feeling a reason other than survival to do something. Good point.

dracolayer.bsky.social•92 days ago

Im sorry bubba.

bigdiaperboy26.bsky.social•91 days ago

Hugs 🤗

robbiedl.bsky.social•92 days ago

Literally had the exact same thoughts last week. You got it! There's someone special that'll come when you least expect it! 🫂

pupriley11.bsky.social•91 days ago

And to piggy back off of Robbie, it will be at the most inconvenient time (for one of the relationship) from what I’ve experienced and gathered (sadly from the heteros 🙄

lilpupcato.bsky.social•91 days ago

I felt this a lot, I was single for like 5 years and then was in a relationship w people who were accepting of abdl, but not engaging with it.

All I’ll say is that you truly do seem like a handsome, intelligent, and wonderful person. It’s cliche to say, but continue to invest in yourself (cont)

lilpupcato.bsky.social•91 days ago

and it will draw people to you. The times I’ve found love were when I wasn’t necessarily looking for it and just putting my best self forward. I have confidence that you’ll find the person who deserves your greatness in due time 💙💙💙

nexy.bsky.social•91 days ago

I’ve been struggling with these same feelings over the past few years.

All I can say is don’t let go of that want. Don’t compromise. You deserve to feel all those things and more with someone.

jakey1231.bsky.social•91 days ago

I can’t help with the relationship aspect, but we should plan a littles play date!!

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