Sounds like the guy thinks that despite all the dudes you've called out for this behavior you'd receive him differently and fall head over heels for him.
How do I know? About 15-20 years ago, I thought very similarly lol.
There's a very good chance that he had no intention of it "working," in the traditional sense. He's likely just trying to make her uncomfortable, doing that specifically because he knows it would be unwelcomed by her.
They do. And sometimes even more. I swear I have witnessed some time ago on Twitter people/bots with the clear intent to provoke threats of receiving a kick in the balls. This world is crammed with weirdos
Dude didn't just flirt, although if he even peeked at Aubry's TL then he wouldn't known THAT was a bad idea. He immediately made it sexual by saying "I can be very submissive." It was hella creepy.
I guess you're not familiar with people / cultures of those types of circles (assuming he's genuine). They're direct about who / what they are to avoid misunderstandings later on.
Bottom line, guy took a shot, clearly rejected, as long as the interaction stopped there, there is no wrongdoing.
This is such a lame excuse that forgets he was heavily dismissive of her response with the rofl emoji, which makes his "my bad" seem incredibly disingenuous, regardless of whether or not he was.
Also, in what PUBLIC circles is immediately starting off with a lewd flirt to a complete stranger OK?
After being corrected he jumped directly into an unsolicited sexual exchange. That's the fucked part and it's astounding to me how you don't see that as crossing the line. Not cute. Not cool. Not interested.
Sorry Aubry, it's not an exchange I'd ever initiate with anyone or an approach I'd use, but unless there was something else beyond what's posted, I'm just not seeing it.
You believe turning a conversation to sexual without invitation with a stranger on a platform that is NOT specifically for that purpose is perfectly fine? Wow.
I see it as unwanted contact (in the form of flirting) that stopped when asked to. Is it fine? It's not something I'd do.
What exactly is "a platform" to find something that one is looking for? How was that defined to started with? Who set the universal arbitory boundaries?
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How do I know? About 15-20 years ago, I thought very similarly lol.
I'm sorry you have to deal with losers like that.
I swear, these idiots have shame kinks or something.
Good for you standing up for yourself.
I haven't DM'ed any strangers in a long time personally, but has it become a culturally unacceptable thing now?
I think there's quite a difference between looking for a relationship / flirting and other frequently-seen-on-here inappropriate behaviour.
Bottom line, guy took a shot, clearly rejected, as long as the interaction stopped there, there is no wrongdoing.
Also, in what PUBLIC circles is immediately starting off with a lewd flirt to a complete stranger OK?
What exactly is "a platform" to find something that one is looking for? How was that defined to started with? Who set the universal arbitory boundaries?