Sometimes it feels like I can never have a break on here as I feel like I have to explain or apologise, and some people are like ‘OMG YOU’RE BACK’, and don’t get me wrong it’s so nice to be missed, and I love you guys sm, but at the same time it makes me feel guilty for (1/) - ThreadSky

delliecatetv.swifties.social • 23 days ago

Sometimes it feels like I can never have a break on here as I feel like I have to explain or apologise, and some people are like ‘OMG YOU’RE BACK’, and don’t get me wrong it’s so nice to be missed, and I love you guys sm, but at the same time it makes me feel guilty for (1/)

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delliecatetv.swifties.social•23 days ago

prioritising other things, and just puts so much pressure on me that makes me not want to come on here at all 😓😓😓 and I’m just really struggling atm with it. Does anyone else ever feel like this, and how do you manage your feelings please? (2/2)

tiredphoenix.swifties.social•23 days ago

I don't think anyone wants you to feel guilty at all, truly! One thing I've noticed is a lot of us feel the need to apologize or explain, because we actually care abt our place in the community. And I think that's beautiful! But I've seen nothing but understanding and respect when it's brought up

tiredphoenix.swifties.social•23 days ago

I posted abt it yesterday night, but I started putting emoji in my display name to signal to people where I'm at with using this platform. I hope you can 'take the compliment' of people missing you or being excited about your presence without guilt attached 🫶🏼

cottagecora.bsky.social•23 days ago

let's normalize popping up on here when we feel like it and not having to explain why we're not more active 🫶 i think people saying this are just excited to see you post, but i understand why it would make you feel that way and you're absolutely right to tell us how you feel!

rachelicate.swifties.social•23 days ago

Ellie, I’m so sorry if I ever make you feel this way! Please don’t feel pressured to come when you need some time away, but always know that I’m here for you whenever you need it. You mean so much to me that I’m always happy to see you around, but you will always be loved no matter what 💜🩷

lifeofthespider.swifties.social•23 days ago

you should never feel guilty prioritizing yourself, your obligations and your wellbeing because yes we like seeing you on here but we like seeing you happy even more and if it means prioritizing your life and being absent from time to time then so be it 💗

millennial.swifties.social•23 days ago

Ellie, when you don’t see a friend for a while doesn’t it just thrill you when you see them again? We understand that everyone has a life to live. When we see each other we are glad and when we don’t, we miss each other until we do. Please don’t feel guilty about this, live your life as you see fit.

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