Okay it was really fun and we had an amazing time.
I think im doing the thing where I assume someone is flirting when they're just being nice and I need to not do that cause it's not fair to him or my brain.
But. Idk, the vibes did not feel like "just friends" and I might need to just outright ask
I think im doing the thing where I assume someone is flirting when they're just being nice and I need to not do that cause it's not fair to him or my brain.
But. Idk, the vibes did not feel like "just friends" and I might need to just outright ask
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Juni! 🥰
Is going to this movie with him a good idea? Uhhhhhhhhh. We'll find out
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also, just to put it out there, the vibes between "non-romantic besties" and "partner" have always been hard for me to discern
and sometimes i need to make myself remember that just because someone is significant in my life, doesn't mean it's romantic
It has been such a struggle for me to figure out how to love people deeply without falling in love with them romantically.
I ended up deciding to just be in love with my friends and enjoy what IS there rather than being sad about what isn't, it only hurts a little sometimes 😅
But for this guy, I'm struggling to differentiate these feelings, and I think at least knowing where he's at will help.
It hurt to find out they weren't interested, but I had a similar chat with a friend last year and it has... cooled things just a little, which is occasionally sad but far less tumultuous for my heart.
He already broke my heart once, I dont want to be confused and get myself hurt again
I hope, regardless of the nature of his feelings, that he gives you honest answers & treats your heart with care.
at worst you will remain friends and it sounds like you have a good friendship! but what if....