Starting to come to a scary realization that maybe I shouldn't be so flirty with girls and that I'm not in a good place to try to date. That I do have problems and they are serious. I don't want to be someone else's problem. The thought of trying is so overwhelming - ThreadSky

fruitygaygirl.sisterkiss.ing • 101 days ago

Starting to come to a scary realization that maybe I shouldn't be so flirty with girls and that I'm not in a good place to try to date. That I do have problems and they are serious. I don't want to be someone else's problem.

The thought of trying is so overwhelming

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faggygaytranny.bsky.social•101 days ago

Well, I've had quite a few serious problems bottled up for a long time myself. However after I started dating my girlfriend I was able to start unpacking my problems, and it(gf) was able to help me figure things out about myself.

faggygaytranny.bsky.social•101 days ago

Obviously if you aren't comfortable with dating due to your problems, you should listen to your own instincts over an internet stranger. You know your own situation best but I hope I could provide some insight from my perspective.

fruitygaygirl.sisterkiss.ing•101 days ago

Yeah, I get that. Problem is I'm not over my ex-wife or the last girl I was super into, completely. And I've got massive life problems like dealing with immigration and finding work, and figuring out what to do with my life now.

And I feel like I'm a complete mess.

faggygaytranny.bsky.social•101 days ago

That's so fair, I'm trying to immigrate too. It's soooooo difficult to figure all the nuances out.

faggygaytranny.bsky.social•101 days ago

It is such a strict process that I should've expected going into it honestly.

fruitygaygirl.sisterkiss.ing•101 days ago

Oh nice! From where to where (totally understand if you don't want to share, or if you want to DM it).

I'm going from the US to Spain. Immigrating to Spain is super easy compared to other countries and even then it's still a pain in the ass

emmsbites.bsky.social•101 days ago

Understanding your limitations is already awesome. And I read your reply and yeah immigration is a bitch and so are breakups. Both of which are terrible and energy consuming in a take over your life kinda way. Hope at least the immigration thing works out quickly.

fruitygaygirl.sisterkiss.ing•101 days ago

Thank you! Luckily Spain is one of the easier places to immigrate to. Especially in Europe!

A few months until I can work, and a year before I can start applying for citizenship. So hopefully 2-3 years until I have it.

And yeah, relationship stuff is what it is. One day I'll find something good

emmsbites.bsky.social•100 days ago

I went through the Belgian process last year. I say last year but it took a while just to get here and then do the process ☠️☠️☠️

thedeepedge.bsky.social•100 days ago

i think theres a middle ground. you have to work on yourself, but you also cant deny yourself love when it comes to you

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