Doing collection development, going down a rabbit hole of all the amazing queer YA fic that's out now that I wish I'd had as a teen. I was stuck with Dare, Truth, or Promise and Deliver Us From Evie... god, what I would have done for some of these amazing-sounding books with transmasc characters.
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Being nonbinary (masc leaning), but not masculine enough, but not feminine enough felt like a trap. The only term at the time to describe that was genderqueer or genderfucked. 1/2
I went from "am I not straight in some way?" to "oh, I think I'm actually asexual" to "Oh crap, gender? I don't know her!"
My transition started in my late 30's.