You're misdirecting your frustration with random annoying people onto some random dude mourning the lack of connection in his life. What makes you think he is doing "nothing" about it? You're just being disrespectful.
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Because it’s either whining without effort of changing situation or psychological conditions. If you want to socialise - you will find a way, by changing yourself of changing environment. It’s that simple
Privileged take and essentially victim blaming. People live and undergo in all kinds of circumstances that can forcefully isolate them against their will. Good on you for being "built different", but your experience is far from universal and proves you have never worked with vulnerable people.
Absolutely. Imagine having a heart attack, then being to weak to go out for almost a year while recovering. I guess that's my fault. And visitors?? Don't make me laugh. Get sick; get forgotten.
It’s not the matter of difficulty, but of reason for even trying to socialise. For example, you started playing a new game. You can gradually dive into gameplay and master your skills, or you just want easy wins so you buy cheats and play god (also destroying others game experience as a nice bonus)
they all furbish their problems in remorseful language, these people are not random either its people i invested my energy to try to form a meaningful friendship but because theyre so focused on it they never responsibility for when theyre actually in the wrong and change nothing about themselves.
You literally told a grieving disabled man his isolation is self-imposed, and keep pivoting to whine about your self centric problems that no one cares about. Keep preaching, it's great watching you make a fool out of yourself.
He said that long-distance relationships aren't real and that you aren't supposed to make friends in public spaces. This person is not a perfect victim and spinning it off like that is disingenuous. You are the one spending your emotional energy on them.
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