I guess if I were to be optimistic about it, it could give me my own unique flavour in regards to the kinkier aspects? It's pretty obvious by this point I enjoy that a lot, after all. But to be honest... It's hard to not feel a little alienated sometimes, and really that's nobody's fault. - ThreadSky

sophanya.love • 15 days ago

I guess if I were to be optimistic about it, it could give me my own unique flavour in regards to the kinkier aspects? It's pretty obvious by this point I enjoy that a lot, after all.

But to be honest... It's hard to not feel a little alienated sometimes, and really that's nobody's fault.

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ambrosiabun.pet•15 days ago

I’m really thankful that I met someone who aligns with me on it so completely… 🥰 I feel the same often, but I’m so so happy that I met you (for this and a billion other reasons 🥰)

honeybutters.bsky.social•15 days ago

Holy shit it's not just me?? I've been feeling like "Hey that's cool, but some of this is a bit intense for me" in some parts of hypnokink for a while. I've been coming around to simply enjoying seeing the process and the intimacy that comes with that.

maribelmelody.bsky.social•15 days ago

To me their is value in uniqueness. Not in the sense of "oh well you don't fit in but that's ok I guess weirdo" that many encounter when young and different but in the sense of going down the path unexplored, of finding what seldom seek, and of connecting ideas previously isolate. Cultivate yourself

galagasbeam.bsky.social•15 days ago

real as hell for this. i’m one of your biggest fans because you aim for the more comfort side of hypno rather than all the real overly sexual focused hypno stuff that’s rampant—you take a unique approach appealing to a favorite side of hypno of mine that is rarely touched upon :)

sophanya.love•15 days ago

The thing is, I don't think these things are actually mutually exclusive. It's a case of the overall focus here I think.

I try to place emphasis on basically everything though personally, because I love it all: the lead-up, the process, the result... Everything.

sophanya.love•15 days ago

Whereas, a lot of people are much more interested in the result, or at least place a lot less emphasis on the psychological aspects that matter to me so much personally.

sophanya.love•15 days ago

None of these things are innately bad, mind you, assuming all parties are consenting... Hypnosis is an art after all.

I suppose a good way to put it though is that it appears to me a lot of hypnotists don't seem to put much consideration into what is going on in the individual subject's mind,

sophanya.love•15 days ago

which I've found pairs commonly with a much... Harsher and forceful approach, for lack of a better term. It feels like brute force to me, which isn't something I'm personally comfortable with but if the parties involved enjoy it consensually then I've no problem with it!

sophanya.love•15 days ago

Anyway, point is I can DEFINITELY be very sexual given the right circumstances in a hypnotic sense, whilst also incorporating everything else, or whatever I feel is appropriate in any given session or moment.

sugarcunt.bsky.social•15 days ago

All of your sentiments in this thread are very relatable to me, not just with my hypno, but with all my kink play.

I actually dislike when a client won't converse enough to give me psychological insight into their desires.

I'm not about brute force, I'm about bespoke, slow burn nuance.

fabiustheta.bsky.social•15 days ago

You’re so real for this

sophanya.love•15 days ago

this is actually a little validating

fabiustheta.bsky.social•15 days ago

I have found people who like to keep their hypno cutesy like me since (some partially influenced by me I think) but this is basically exactly how I felt before I knew them. Viewing myself as like introducing a new style rather than being unwelcome is how I thought of it and I think you should too!

kittengirl.bsky.social•15 days ago

Communities never seem quite right, and I've had more success just posting more kinky shit on bsky than anything else.

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