prime example of not understanding the language of a particular group and looking for a reason to be upset - ThreadSky

pants-so-short.bsky.social • 2 days ago

prime example of not understanding the language of a particular group and looking for a reason to be upset

There's a difference between feeling comfortable and safe with your partner, and being actively disempowered and infantilised.

"she has no idea where she's going", "that lady is ready to be a GIRL!", "her life is serum and fluffy jumper"

Or being compared to tenderised meat, for that matter 🤢

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idkjustmom.bsky.social•2 days ago

Blocked list gets longer every day.

turpywurpy.bsky.social•2 days ago

What if I understood the language he used and I still disagreed? What then?

pants-so-short.bsky.social•2 days ago

then we could have an honest conversation, but on account you don’t know solomon and you’re not black there is but so much understanding of this particular subset of AAE you’re going to do. so if you wanna try to explain it i’ll wait and listen.

turpywurpy.bsky.social•2 days ago

Maybe I'm wrong but to me Solomon was saying "as a man you should be so reliable that your girl doesn't have to worry about day to day things that would otherwise cause her anxiety". Correct?

pants-so-short.bsky.social•2 days ago

no. solomon was saying that with all the things women face in the world, and often in relationships of having to shoulder the emotional labor, that if you’re going on a vacation it’s nice to allow your woman to turn her brain off. girls are programmed from birth to take care of everyone else.

pants-so-short.bsky.social•2 days ago

so if she can just exist for a few days bc you have lifted the load from her it’s a sign of safety.

imagin8ion.bsky.social•1 day ago

Cannot find the lie!

ziajd.bsky.social•2 days ago

And care!

ziajd.bsky.social•2 days ago

That's not at all what he was saying, and you'd know that if you didn't block him.

turpywurpy.bsky.social•2 days ago

I didn't block him? Lmao

ziajd.bsky.social•2 days ago

Oh, I never know who blocked who when you see some quoting a blocked post.

Go read the rest of his thread and his page in general. You came in hot on a post meant to be funny and lighthearted, but that also contained a message on how to care for your partner.

ziajd.bsky.social•2 days ago

This part right here.

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