I have all these thoughts in my head about inadequacy and feeling like I'll be forever single. I always feel like people always tell me that they want to hang out but never attempt to reach out. I have one guy who does though and I do like hanging out with him even though I see it as only friends. - ThreadSky

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goody2toad.bsky.social • 2 days ago

I have all these thoughts in my head about inadequacy and feeling like I'll be forever single. I always feel like people always tell me that they want to hang out but never attempt to reach out. I have one guy who does though and I do like hanging out with him even though I see it as only friends.

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goody2toad.bsky.social•2 days ago

Like how do I get someone romantically interested in me feeling the same back. I don't think I have that high of a standard, but I do have some deal breakers, especially in the pursuit of a leather daddy, mostly my big non-smoking hurdle. Good luck finding a hot leather daddy that doesn't smoke.

goody2toad.bsky.social•2 days ago

But I know that the guys I pine for just don't want me. They see me as too big, or too tall, or too much, or get this, too stable..... Like damn sorry I'm not some early 20s pup anymore. I had to work my ass off to keep a roof over my head most of my life after moving out of my parents.

goody2toad.bsky.social•2 days ago

But as someone who's just sick of the bar scene and online stuff is just worthless for real connection... Where do I go from here? I just don't see any way anymore.

bresnanteddy.bsky.social•2 days ago

You're a good guy Toad and you deserve a good solid guy. I feel like there aren't that many out there and the playing pieces don't move much but that doesn't mean never *hugs*

gideonweiss.bsky.social•2 days ago

I know exactly what you feel.

ursegrimus.bsky.social•2 days ago

I know how you feel

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