Trimmed the fat. Took a hard look at all in my life & repositioned them accordingly. Those that drained me financially & mentally had to go. No matter who. Husband gambling? Gone. Friends violating my boundaries? Gone. Siblings not liking I now have boundaries? Gone!
I’m creating MY life based on my own thoughts, opinions, & feelings. IDGAF about you if you are not a positive source of light in my world. It can be lonely at times, but damn the peace is energizing. The focus to “see” myself & be moving authentically is liberating. I recommend.
I shifted my focus to my immediate family and goals and put blinders on for everyone and everything else. The mindset is: If it's not helping me reach a specific goal, improving my mental or financial state, I don't allow it. That includes extended family and friends as well.
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