"You won't theoretically put yourself at grave personal risk to help an abuser? What sort of person are you?!"
An abuser survivor, asshole. That's what the abuse was: me getting hurt, again and again and again, trying to help someone who used my body and my soul for selfish, hateful, painful ends.
An abuser survivor, asshole. That's what the abuse was: me getting hurt, again and again and again, trying to help someone who used my body and my soul for selfish, hateful, painful ends.
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Also it's perfectly okay to not be willing to help your abuser, even remotely. No fire needs a burn survivor to put it out.
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That is not the same thing as making yourself accessible to abusers.