You hear "there are more important things than sex" a lot throughout life, and on the surface like yeah duh, but the longer I live, the more I feel this weird micro aggressive sex negative undertone to that statement.
Like what if sex IS important to you? What if it isn't just a want, but a need?
Like what if sex IS important to you? What if it isn't just a want, but a need?
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Irrespective of whether people think you're right or wrong to be unhappy about a lack of sexual fulfillment, do you deserve unhappiness?
What if you love being sexual, what if it is something you want to do forever?
Maybe there is danger in placing such esteem on something fleeting, but isn't EVERYTHING fleeting?
I think the queer community is more open about this when it comes to expressing to our partners what we want and need. But broadly, and almost never publicly, is this topic discussed.
I literally don't know a married guy over 45 that doesn't "joke" about hating their wife.
THANK YOU.