the hypersexuality comes from trauma fwiw. i feel like not enough people understand that, or the different between having a high sex drive and being hypersexual. maybe will make more art on that
I'm glad I read this. Since transitioning and "calming down" I've been having less sex and hookups. But I've felt more fulfilled and focused on making better connections.
I always worried that I was becoming "boring" or undesirable.
( ꈍᴗꈍ) it's good to say things like that to yourself, it's fine to change, it's good to *heal*, you'll never be boring bc you don't need to be extreme to be liked by the ones you love, you'll always be enough
Like, ionically this should be a fucking format. This is absolutely fucking genius for trying to get your feelings across both yourself into your audience about how you're doing.
Dw I knew what you meant! Thank you for your kind words, I'm going to try and make more personal comics like this, I think it's a place I want to take my art so I am glad it resonates :3
I’m afraid this one is just me talking to myself X3 These are both my sonas! Though I do talk to Maple about this all kind of thing all the time. All we do is yap 🐕🐕
I had enormous anxiety around me not being able to bring myself to be more sexual in my 20s, and it turned out I had a lot of brain stuff going on that manifested itself in being hyper-vigilant around physical and emotional intimacy, and now I'm on meds and slowly but surely becoming *more* sexual
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I always worried that I was becoming "boring" or undesirable.
that’s what happened
Like, ionically this should be a fucking format. This is absolutely fucking genius for trying to get your feelings across both yourself into your audience about how you're doing.
Holy shit, you're so fucking smart. Holy shit.
Important stuff regardless of being mono or poly!!!
also you're still pog and i like your art <3