I feel you.
There’s beauty in abundance right here in the present.
While the Youinverse brings what we vibrate, it is right that we revell fully in this very moment.
I see You ✨💖✨
Same, my family looks to me to be the fixer constantly! It’s taken a toll on my mental health I’m not going to lie. People calling all hours of the night disturbing my peace it’s quite exhausting.
that’s why I started keeping my phone on dnd 24/7 so I could monitor who had access to me. I am the oldest daughter so my family leaned on me for everything and it was too much.
wow!! they usually leave the youngest alone! I’m sorry twin. my youngest sister is damn near my child bc I’ve done everything for her. it’s crazy families don’t wanna hear how it’s wears you out bc it’s always “family should do for family.” ugh
that's the hardest part, esp bc family loves to disrespect boundaries. + part of me is scared to separate + start over in terms of family and friends bc of the loneliness but ik eventually i'm gonna need to if i want to grow fr
so, I struggled with it tremendously when my dad got sick (I can explain this more through text) but no one helped me with him. it made me bitter and angry towards my family. I decided that I would just have to be lonely or have a smaller support system bc it was killing my mental health.
Ooof that part!! Gotta give yourself grace tho you weren’t who you are today and the girl you were was still learning. Without her you wouldn’t know better
yeah over time I’m starting to feel like that. I just hate how much I let people play in my face about. but now that I’ve set boundaries, I’m getting better from being so angry and looking at it as lessons if that makes sense.
I understand, coming from a lifetime of being selfless for the sake of others there’s a lot of memories of things that should’ve been stopped, but as you learn to acknowledge your feelings, the better and stronger your boundaries become
unlearning self-sacrifice as a default is tough, especially when you’ve been conditioned to put others first. but the more you acknowledge your feelings, the more you realize you always deserved boundaries. growth is uncomfortable, but that peace on the other side is worth it.
I’m proud of you for going on this journey, It’s tough. It’s really not easy but life is going to be so much better for you and I cannot wait to see you thrive 🧡
Don’t I know it!! I still struggle with it at times. Especially when I know I ignored signs or red flags. I have to remind myself to extend the same forgiveness and understanding I extend to others. You got this baby 🫶🏽
thank you doll! I am horrible with just pouring into me and making sure I’m good. I work against myself so much 😩 😭
and yeah idk why I’m not seeing a lot of people. I keep seeing new faces and I’m like did y’all come over from the bird app and is that pushing the OGs out the way?
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There’s beauty in abundance right here in the present.
While the Youinverse brings what we vibrate, it is right that we revell fully in this very moment.
I see You ✨💖✨
and yeah idk why I’m not seeing a lot of people. I keep seeing new faces and I’m like did y’all come over from the bird app and is that pushing the OGs out the way?