Identity stuff can be a bit irritating sometimes because I wanna bitch about all the ways being trans and into men sucks but I hate calling myself “straight” or “het” but like I navigate the same terrain as (some) transhet people do.
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One thing I’ve really embraced is that queerness should be as fluid a concept as possible and any attempts to create or maintain limits or conventional normality outside of the personal, will fall apart. Queerness for me is about the bringing the unknown into the known, if that makes sense.
That’s true. I think my struggle is that sometimes when I wanna talk about my struggles I need to flatten the complexity of my self-perception and speak in terms of how I’m perceived externally and the barriers
I actually do wonder to some extent “being in a situation where you might date people who aren’t queer” is also something that bi people have *some* experience with, though experiences vary of course.
Yeah. I mean, for what it’s worth, I personally definitely feel more comfortable in queer relationships but I’m wondering how much is that is bisexual dynamics (binamics if you will lol) in heterosexual relationships.
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Aka all attraction is queer when you are :)