Ive noticed it's become a common fear amongst 20-23 yr old kids that life ends at 30 but life feels way better closer to 30 and beyond cause you grasp more control over your own life and you have stability to actually do a lot more than you thought. Pre-25 is just a tutorial tbh - ThreadSky

purilly.bsky.social • 14 days ago

Ive noticed it's become a common fear amongst 20-23 yr old kids that life ends at 30 but life feels way better closer to 30 and beyond cause you grasp more control over your own life and you have stability to actually do a lot more than you thought. Pre-25 is just a tutorial tbh

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purilly.bsky.social•14 days ago

I've gone through a lot to find my current self and happiness and to know that this happiness isn't just fleeting anymore and that it's something that'll stay with me is a really nice feeling

jadedarsenic.bsky.social•14 days ago

If life ended at 30... i'm dead, twice over.

cammikit.bsky.social•14 days ago

When I hit 30 it honestly felt like a new beginning for me.

sleepyefy.bsky.social•13 days ago

Honestly I really want to see how I would be doing in my 30s, life is very hard on my mental health now and everyone around me just told me it gonna get worse once I got out of uni.

chopchopok.bsky.social•14 days ago

Yeah, I feel like I was never really sure about who I was until I was around 30.

dearninette.bsky.social•13 days ago

Please say it louder for the people in the back... Life doesn't end just cause you near the end of your 20s, if anything it will get SO MUCH BETTER!

I love-hate that I had so many lessons to learn in my early 20s, but I'm so glad I did bc my mind has never been clearer on the path I should be on😤

sango.studio•14 days ago

I genuinely didn't gain control over my life until after I turned 30. it's not a magical number, it just happens to be the stage of your life when a bunch of things start coming together after you've worked on them for a decade and failed a bunch of times in the process

sango.studio•14 days ago

and if you didn't come to that realization and start working on yourself in your 20s, you will be just as stuck at 30 as you were at 20

purilly.bsky.social•14 days ago

This !!! Like every mistake and hardship I went through in my 20s is exactly what brought my stability and for people who are stuck in their 30s are the kind of people who didn't recognize their own mistakes and gave up too soon- It's a slow but worthwhile process that is so easy as an early 20's

vivipooh.bunnyknightstudio.org•14 days ago

I honestly relate to this so much. My 20s felt like a huge rollercoaster filled with so many obstacles and challenges but I’m slowly gaining control of it all and heading in the direction that finally makes me happy 🥲 one of them is learning to use social media more and reconnecting with friends!

hylianxiao.writes.fyi•14 days ago

me who’s still in the tutorial stage: 🧍🏽‍♀️

hylianxiao.writes.fyi•14 days ago

I don’t know what to expect for the next five+ years of my life!

hylianxiao.writes.fyi•14 days ago

I feel like I have some ideas bc I watch a number of content creators who are in their 30s rn but… atst I don’t know things and I am a little afraid but the mindset of “fug it we ball” may be what keeps me going lmao

purilly.bsky.social•14 days ago

i dont think its healthy to watch other people and expect your own life to go the same way- "fuck it we ball" is exactly how do you do it because expectations is what brings the unnecessary fear 🥹 just enjoy your life and make mistakes and learn from them !! you're doing great !!

hylianxiao.writes.fyi•14 days ago

But you’re very right about the rest 🙂‍↕️ I’m taking it slow, one day at a time and doing my best to either stay positive or neutral about things,,, but the cynicism do be getting to me sometimes 😔

hylianxiao.writes.fyi•14 days ago

Oh no that’s not what I meant! I mean like people like Jacksepticeye who’s in his 30s and he’s going through the motions and telling us about his life and some of the things he’s gone through and I’m learning from that. Definitely don’t expect my life to be like his, though that would be cool! 🤣

londonfog.swifties.social•14 days ago

When I was 23 I had a mental breakdown that I was too old and thrown away all my potential and my life was over LOL.

It’s cute in hindsight 😂

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