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Mediator, RJ professional MiSCAO Trainer and Coach LL.M - Dispute Resolution If you engage in good faith, I'm here for it. Make sure you're ready to exhibit emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and integrity, or be ready to be taught.
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submitted 10 days ago • 0 comments

I've been seeing a lot of questions of "what can I do?" Pick one thing that matters to you and do that. Know when your need for others to change is making you unable to move forward toward your own goals. Get over the need to change others. We CAN do hard things! #peacemaker #utwn

submitted 67 days ago • 1 comment

How do we resolve conflict in a time where it seems peace is impossible? Teach people to be critical thinkers. Be the order in the chaos. Remain self-aware and work on your biases so as not to add to the drama. Step one is about you. #utwn #unitetheworldnow #mediation #peacemakers #peace

submitted 75 days ago • 0 comments

It's an illusion meant to keep us spiraling in fear and anger. Nobody can make you feel anything. We don't need to be apathetic to not be tossed about by the waves of chaos. Buckle down. We've got shit to do.

submitted 77 days ago • 0 comments

Hello my new friends! Let's continue our peacemaking community together here! This energy is too exciting to lose and we get to decide where to put it!

submitted 86 days ago • 0 comments

Tips on being a Peacemaker

submitted 97 days ago • 0 comments

This is a test of our integrity. Do we let anger and vindictiveness consume our energy or do we fiercely advocate for the equity and community? You can maintain high accountability and high support. #equity #integrity #community

submitted 144 days ago • 1 comment

I would love to engage with people who are here for the hard work, the self work. Together we can do hard things, and great things!

submitted 145 days ago • 0 comments

There's so much value in the Social Discipline Window. Restorative Practices is not the "soft" way to engage, but in fact, the more demanding of our energy. It is absolutely possible to engage with high accountability AND high support.

submitted 146 days ago • 0 comments

This is a reality testing moment. Each of us must decide how much work we are genuinely willing to do on ourselves. It's easy to point at others for not being what we expect, but our expectations are about us.

submitted 147 days ago • 0 comments

Ask open ended questions, if you are genuinely seeking information. Anything else is manipulative and seeking to reinforce your bias.

submitted 147 days ago • 0 comments

How do we make a difference? By starting with ourselves. Before we look around and point to what isn't working we have to be able to look at ourselves and ask how did "I" contribute. And then how will "I" contribute to making my life the way I want it to be?

submitted 148 days ago • 0 comments

The opposite of love is fear, not hate. Learning self-awareness and emotional intelligence directs us toward community and not domination.

submitted 148 days ago • 0 comments

You get to say NO. NO is a complete sentence. You get to choose what energy you allow in your space. That goes for us all. Boundaries don't require justification.

submitted 149 days ago • 0 comments

I'm an expert mediator and restorative practices professional and trainer. Follow along if you want insights on developing the skills of professional conflict managers.

submitted 149 days ago • 0 comments

Conflict can be a good thing. Hear me out. Sometimes conflict needs to escalate to reach resolution. Don't be worried and don't try to avoid it. Develop your emotional intellegence and learn how to sit in the discomfort of the unknown.

submitted 149 days ago • 0 comments

Looking for peacemakers to join my community! No toxic positivity and no BS!

submitted 150 days ago • 0 comments

Restorative Practices teaches that we can exist in a community with high accountability and high support. The two can and should exist. We simply agree as a community that this is how we want to exist.

submitted 151 days ago • 0 comments