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Making it through the fall of democracy one day at a time. Women are always the answer and the way. Dog mom. Adore my unicorn of a husband.
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Ladies… If you are currently taking baby steps towards a new future after you’ve been beaten down by life, you are not being tentative! Your baby steps are giant unwieldy, awkward, deeply courageous lurches into the unknown. Keep going 💖

The weather in Chicago in March is a toxic relationship. Love bombing one moment, behaving like 💩 in the next.

Detachment - When we detach from someone it doesn’t mean we don’t love them. It means we have the power of choice, and the ability to take care of ourselves first, in the midst of someone else’s choices. Don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for having, and choosing, this option.

They fear our rage because they know angry women will change the world.

This makes me cackle

When I think about how, over 10 yrs ago, a 22-yo dude ☠️ ppl with 🔫 🔪. & how his 141-pg hate letter to womankind became the incel’s playbook & bible. & how the narrative STILL only focuses on men’s loneliness… & how women are to blame for men’s violence because 1/2

Friends, if I could sleep my way to the top - i.e., consistently get 8-10 hours of restful sleep a night - I would totally do it.

FYI, when female octopuses are not feeling in the mood to mate, they strangle the males and eat them. Happy international women’s day.

These ten pos Democrats voted w Republicans to censure Al Green for interrupting T’s speech & watched as members of the Congressional Black Caucus stood with him singing, “We Shall Overcome”: Ami Bera Ed Case Jim Costa Laura Gillen Jim Himes Chrissy Houlahan Marcy Kaptur Jared Moskowitz 1/2

This energy right here of a pride protecting their cubs from a nomad lion is what is from the Dems. Instead we’re getting cosplay and paddle signs. Al Green was the only one at the SOTU who showed heart & courage & no one matched him. The dems are spineless.

MORE OF THIS!

It’s the way the system is built.

Women are too old, too young, too fat, too much, too little, not enough or crazy. Because the perfect age, weight, size or way to be is a man. Women are responsible for men’s loneliness, anger, sexual predation & emotional disregulation because the first rule in misogyny/patriarchy is, women 1/2

The USA sunk to a new low. Absolutely disgusting behaviour by this administration. The eyeliner vp showing off in front of his orange taint Daddy. They ruined a multi-trillion dollar mineral deal because they’re Russian puppets & their leadership is weak. And it all happened on Live TV. Such an 1/2

I honestly did not imagine I would be fighting fascism in my 50s.

Emasculate: Verb — to deprive (a man) of his male role or identity. FYI there is no female equivalent for this word. Back to my point, it is really something to be the ‘weaker sex’ while simultaneously being powerful enough to dethrone a man of their defining gender identity.

Things men said while Dr. Teresa Borrenpohl was being zip tied, dragged and arrested for simply speaking: “Look at this little girl over here, everyone. Look at her. This little girl does not want to leave. She spoke up and now does not want to suffer the consequences.” And

It’s my birthday, today. This is what 57 looks like. A little bit about me; I like pretty, sparkly things, people who didn’t minimize the threat of fascism or outright vote for it, and saying the word “fuck.”

I lived in Austin & spent time in a community where Elonia would visit and do drugs in. Listen, he’s a full blown drug addict. He’s not even hiding it anymore. He can’t. Yes, he has massive amounts of money and power. But he’s powerless against drugs & he’s surrounded by enablers. The muskrat 1/2

"The world is violent and mercurial - it will have its way with you. We are saved only by love - love for each other and the love that we pour into the art we feel compelled to share: being a parent; being a writer; being a painter; being a friend. We live in a perpetually burning building, and 1/2

WE ALL WANT THE SAME THINGS! Love; Financial Security; Health; Happiness; Physical Safety. It’s just that some of us want it for other people, too.

In 2024, the landslide was people who didn’t vote - 85.9 million ppl to be exact. To put that in perspective, if “I Did Not Vote" was a candidate, they would've received 36% of the popular vote, won 21 states, and gotten 265 electoral votes. The orange taint, with his 76 mil votes against 1/2

Don’t stare at the darkness. It’ll make you crazy.

Self-care is not selfish

My life got better in every way when I stopped being nice at my expense. Nice got me run over, disrespected, taken advantage, gave me low self-esteem, & made me angry & resentful. So I’m no longer nice. I’m now good/kind. I didn’t speak up when I was nice. 1/2

TAKE NOTE: A woman does not make noise when she's leaving you. She made noise before when she wanted to stay, but you didn't listen.

Here we are, just raw-dogging the fall of America.

Let people be upset about the halftime show. Let them tantrum, pearl clutch and feel confused. Let them criticize and devalue. Give them no oxygen whatsoever. Use the mute button on them. Don’t educate, don’t explain, & certainly don’t argue. Don’t give them any attention, because attention 1/3

Let me see if I get this straight. TikTok collecting all our data is a national security risk but elonia muskrat and his broccoli headed teenage minions illegally collecting our data and taking over our federal government is… not? Make this make sense.

“Too be a revolutionary, you have to be a human being. You have to care about people who have no power.” - @janefonda.com

“The only way you could be normal in a society like this is to be complicit with things that are inhuman. Joseph Conrad said, I think, in Heart of Darkness that the devil of our age is not satanic and diabolical; he is just a flabby, mediocre creep. There’s nothing special about him & 1/2

It’s not the same thing

A crucial marker of self-esteem is having the ability to see yourself as the flawed being you are and still hold yourself in high-regard. I cannot tell you how much self-criticism I had to love in myself in order to get to a place where I could hold all the parts of myself as inherently good.

I don’t know who needs to hear this.

It’s clear, just based on how everything is now falling apart, that DEI was what was keeping it all working before.

"Trouble makers are daughters who refuse to inherit the silence of their mothers. Trouble makers are women who speak up when culture threatens their existence. Trouble makers are the ones who suffer the pain of being labelled the bad woman." ~ ljeoma Umebinyuo

How is this possible? It’s only been 8 days. Eight fucking days.

We really are in the stupidest fucking timeline.