askasub.bsky.social
writer. podcaster. fairy submother. đ§đťââď¸
as seen in Vice, TIME, the Savage LoveCast & in your favorites folder since 2019
http://linktr.ee/askasub
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I love this quote from historian and bioethicist Alice Dreger: "Nature doesnât care that we humans tend to like discrete categories. The real world is messy.â She also says âthe borders human draw on sex categories are ... invented. They are invented like other tools, to do a special job.â
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paying for sex rocks you get sex and then a hot woman (or provider of any gender) gets money whatâs not to love
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me at work suddenly Remembering why my butt is bruised
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âreal subs donât have limitsâ
âyouâre gonna do whatever i tell youâ
âidk what feminism has to do with Dominanceâ
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brats right before causing unprecedented levels of chaos
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masochists when their tops ask if they can take any more
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me opening my rancid dating app DMs
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when you havenât taken the time to negotiate the aftercare that works for you
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when iâm told i canât openly suck on my Domâs fingers in the matinee screening of Nosferatu
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my Dom when they tell me to lick it up
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trying to act normal on a first date when the dating pool is so bleak
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when youâre in the shower and realize that thing you canât stop thinking about is a new kink
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how my thumb feels after swiping left on all the âmoderatesâ
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still happening
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I also went on @askasub.bsky.social for a chatty holiday "deep dive" with Lina Dune: podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/1...
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me when vanillas talk about their partners like they hate them
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when someone says women couldnât possibly enjoy consensual submission because itâs inherently disempowering
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when they welcome your boundaries conversation and even have good ideas to contribute