bcgaysailor.bsky.social
gay, kinky š³ļøāššØš¦āµļøš
NSFW
ADHD (AuHD?)
jack of all trades but terrible at music/art
science (physics, computer scienceā¦)
trades (woodworking, welding, electricalā¦)
cat & dog dad
monogamous to poly
brain & spinal injuries
offshore sailing
Vancouver
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122 followers
149 following
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sparingly?
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Girth is Good!
especially at the head. š¦
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so sorry to hear. My fibro has been bad this fall, especially with the bomb cyclone and the two low's spinning in place (fujiwhara effect). i notice that my fibro gets worse on a rising barometer from a deep low. you might want to check barometer history to planning your activities. hugs.
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nice
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Yesterday afternoon, I was driving south on Oak St alongside a Cybertruck & I noticed how impractical the side mirrors were shaped (tapered). I was wondering if the hard chines helped reduce wind resistance like how a sharply square transom on a boat is better than one with rounded corners.
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And remember, if they are lucky, getting old means those good looks fade away.
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I wish theyād do an MRI for 2 men having anal sex in a variety of positions. Theyāve done it for a heterosexual couple.
www.zmonline.com/video/nsfw-i...
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sorry to hear of your struggles. a theme common among gay men, including myself.
glad youāre not in the closet.
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Why did it disappear? Geometry with Earthās orbit?
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Unfortunately, she never received the Nobel Prize for this. A huge scar on the awards, to this day.
@mcnees.bsky.social has done a good thread on this here:
bsky.app/profile/mcne...
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I didnāt even know about Threads. I donāt want to engage in any FB adjacent apps. Too much control by one company.
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Amazing. How did you ever get that flexible?
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oh no. sorry to hear that.
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unfortunately mine cut shorter by a drunk driver, two tailgaters, and people who didnāt care enough to help me with my struggles over the last 10 years. my twin died 2 years ago from ME/CFS, triggered by Lyme. My ME/CFS was triggered by a rear-end car crash. Avg lifespan for ME/CFS is 55.9 years.
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Donāt go to Vancouver for grad school. Go to CU Boulder.
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nice pose
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Iām trying to reduce the number of online accounts with increasing dementia & more risks of identity theft as companies have security breaches. Iāve probably have had enough exploration on the topic with workshops at various gay events, gay film festivals & a gay channel here in Canada.
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Where can I watch it?
No luck on JustWatch.
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Youāre more handsome. Donāt look in the mirror.
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One on hand, if they show emotion, they're "hysterical" and lose credibility. On the other hand, if they DON'T show emotion, they weren't traumatized. Catch-22. Structural violence. Especially by Disability Insurance (either private or govt).
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I have two cats (and boyfriend's dog).
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Sure. I messaged you.
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š¤£š¤£š¤£
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I love āswaddlingā. My mushroom head cock is great for keeping it in, like a butt plug.
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Nope. In his 1st will, he left out my brother & me. A gay man he knew for only 13 months told him he didnāt want the house if family got nothing. So my wealthy lawyer brother & I got token amounts. I got the same as my brother even though I havenāt worked since a 2014 car crash. I go to food banks.
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I joined during the Invite-Only days. If only I had known about #FCF I would have engaged sooner!
I hope to see a lot more #FCF posts to keep the assholes away. Oh, I didnāt mean the assholes of gay men. The homophobic, racist, ableist, transphobic, otherwise bigoted kind of asshole.
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Randomly controlled trial with CBT & mindfulness? š¤£š¤£š¤£
There is so much academic fraud in scientific papers now especially with regard to CBT. Just look up the PACE trial that warranted a UK Parliamentary committee investigation.
www.rwkgoodman.com/info-hub/pac...
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What about fixing the problems so people donāt need to cope with bashing their head against the wall?
You can shove that #ToxicPositivity up your ass.
āLetās Make It Betterā, not just āIt Gets Better.ā
Who writes this shit?
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This makes me very nervous. We've seen too much of this in medicine. Doctors forced to work in intolerable conditions, denied the ability to do their job properly. And then, when they crack under the strain, the response is to "help improve their resilience", rather than address the problems.