becca-riot.bsky.social
Pre-HRT trans from Wales, UK
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This is why I hope for the lottery, it's my most viable way to support myself at this rate.
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This ontop of aspects I taken responsibility for I'm seriously considering just bare minimum effort to preserve my energy and concentrate on what I do need to fix.
But I'm never gonna climb the pay grade that way. And I'm to burnt out for a side Hustle or school
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I have little time for plaid usually, but bravo for calling this out
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I find the very suggestion that forcing someone into a gender they are uncomfortable with objectionable. Do better.
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@campcallout.bsky.social didn't you cover this lady in one of your shorts?
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Your outfit rocks
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After the divorce, perhaps for any additional treatments not covered by Welsh NHS.
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Yeah I'm not the only one to pick up on the 14 words too. Glad for that
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I'm flat broke while divorce is being sorted and paying ex's grocery tab while she looks for work and a new place
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Pinknews not got trans people on their list of interests to protect anyway.
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When a coffin and some dirt isn't enough for you to heal I guess
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I wish, alas no titty-skittles or femme and emms in my daily intake.
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Well I got one of three.
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I have mild hearing damage on one side from pyrotechnics in Airsoft. I'm now a firm believer in ear defenders and toning down the DB in bangers
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For my dad it was a lifelong career as a motor mechanic. Ear protection was never a thing considered until very recently in that trade and a few of the older techs and managers suffer similar issues now.
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However I hate my voice since puberty (I assumed everyone did), and now worry about the change in societal direction.
I'm pondering training but would it actually be worth it. Would it still be cocky but also isolating for my dad.
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This could have been written by me. It's so familiar
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So what was the reason for the split? A lot of us are led to believe it was over #NeilGaimans actions, especially due to victim testimony.
I am sickened to have ever looked up to either of them in the past.
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however there are clear war crimes being committed and illegal annexation as determined by international court.
This needs to end but being an asshole in each others faces is just going to keep perpetual conflict.
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I happen to take a very cautious stance on Israel/Palestine myself. Taking time to learn the history of the region has educated me enough to know how little I know fuck all. It's hard to figure out who hurt who first.
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Thanks B
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Did you see Rowlings take on this cartoon 🤦🏻♀️ some people will do serious mental gym to use this to validate a position that suits them
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I get it. I roll my eyes at some stuff people say in my country but I know Thier political direction (more opportunities for everyone, no oligarchy), is the coming ground. I keep that criticism out unless absolutely necessary, and will come from a place of respect.
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Politics is like public transport. It's not a door to door service, no one else lives in your home.
However if you find a few people going the same direction it gets you closer to your destination and shares the burden to that point.
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Thank you Miss M.
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3 more chapters to go and I'll be done. And I think I have reason to motivate picking up that keyboard again.
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However some of those who have walked away quietly I really respected, and the RSD is kicking hard. But also my self loathing for being soft.
I had been writing an anonymised memoir of the marriage to help settle my own sense of reality. But hadn't done much since the 2nd chapter.
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She even remembered my birthday for the first time in 8 years. This has left me struggling with guilt while she tells me she's stressed and is struggling to find work. Again I just feel anger although my suspicions have yet to be confirmed.
I assumed she would do this, and thought I was prepared.
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I was thinking I was prepared but one or two I genuinely liked and respected. It's stung.
I've only told 1 or two people that side of the water what's up, and not in depth so not to colour things. She's been actually respectful in my face and backed of the demands on me a little.
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I kinda expected this as 10 years ago when I first struggled to come out she made public posts I couldn't see that made friends question what's up, putting me on the spot. Which is when I promised to stop, and work at finding us a home of our own when we couldn't afford to.
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I caught her doing this 2 years ago telling one of them I was just being vein and absent when I was working 60 hours a week and starting to come to terms with why I hate reflections and photos.