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bencriley.bsky.social
Be gay do crime | on Gadigal land (Sydney)
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Last weekend a friend described good parties as a mix of 4 activities you want to be cycling between: sit and chat, dance, go for a wander, pash hotties. Perfect description of what I want from a party.

I keep forgetting that finishing my masters thesis also means I graduate and get a degree, it's not just getting my evenings and weekends back 🙃

No you are not "queering marriage", stop it

How good is pashing hotties

Holding up a little sign that says “please stop” as the notorious serial killer, Illiterate Bob, stabs me to death

My mum is a visual artist and since I was little I've loved going to galleries with her. We just saw a series of Tracey Moffatt photos at MONA that was commissioned by Albury Regional Art Gallery in the late 80s a few years before mum ran school programs there. Mum knew one of the models.

Men love to be about being men

Hello from Hobart

Yes it is devastating that I am leaving Sydney for two days **on mardi gras weekend** to go to a family thing in Hobart and I'm sure it will actually be very nice but please, everyone I'm leaving behind, be a slut for me while I'm gone (and tell me all about it)

Exit row seats should be free for people over a certain height

ok fine I'll go to the sexology conference

Without thinking too much about it my favourite TV shows of the past decade are The Young/New Pope, The Americans and Station Eleven

My aesthetic concerns can be summarised by the opening credits to The New Pope

Ooohh just woke up from a 13 hour recovery sleep

Didn't want to start the week with a night in emergency but there you go! I'm ok, had a "thunderclap headache" and they thought I might have had a stroke but it doesn't look like it was one. A reminder that being in hospital sucks.

Been a very big week at work and mardi gras, recovering in the sun with a book

There has been a war over the notices that go up in the lifts in my building, and whoever is making the signs has got me on side with this one

Had the best time at Hot Trans Summer last night, immaculate vibes (and my first boat party)

the true villain of season 17 is suzie toot's hats

I can find most people hot (my boyfriend says it's my gift to the world) but it's hard to work with a bad kisser

Bf and I both forgot it was valentines day which is I guess the best way to engage with it