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benjamas.bsky.social
Single Dad, Injured Medical Student trying to recover from spinal injury. ADHD. They/Them.
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Is it a Good Friday? Or a great Friday?

submitted 340 days ago • 0 comments

It’s very convenient for her to throw these reasons out to me now, she only went looking outside our marriage not long after it was revealed I wouldn’t be able to completed my studies and become a doctor because of my spinal injury.

submitted 345 days ago • 0 comments

my ex dropped a reason why she checked out of our marriage when talking last night. When I had my mental breakdown and a short stay in the hospital to adjust me meds, she felt she could no long rely or trust me. So she decided never to confided in me, until 4 years later when leaving me and the kids

submitted 345 days ago • 0 comments

Have gone past the half way mark of my weight loss goal, clothes are ill fitting, my pants and underwear keep wanting to just fall off as I am walking. Soon I will shift focus from pure weight loss to strength and muscle building. In 3 months I have lost 23kg/50lbs.

submitted 346 days ago • 1 comment

Focussing on myself is strange and unfamiliar, after years of prioritising my wife and kids, what do I do with myself. I still prioritize my kids and do everything I can to protect them, but I find myself lost and wondering what to do, beyond doing exercise and reading… suggestions are welcome

submitted 352 days ago • 0 comments