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she/they, 27, lesbian, autistic & anxious af gaylor, queer history enthusiastšŸŒˆšŸ“– longtime twitter lurker turned bluesky yapper, finally a safe space to be gay & loud togetheršŸ„¹
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itā€™s rare when iā€™m this overwhelmed for my brain to want new music, but iā€™ve been reallyyyy enjoying these two albums this month :)

it turns out knowing and understanding why you are sad does not speed up getting through feeling sad

oh my heart is heavyšŸ˜ž I studied/lived in Tanzania in 2017. we learned in depth about the history & forceful displacement of the Maasai, a semi nomadic tribe. Theyā€™re once again being refused access to their land on a huge scale. This is DEVASTATING. the greed of the rich never fails to shatter meā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹

Just a personal note. The people on this app are some of the best people I have ever met in my life. Thank you.

"I remember looking at this room we loved it cause of the light... now I just sit in the dark and wonder if it's time"

went for a little walk to attempt to calm my brain. but idk itā€™s bad like really bad, idk if i can even fully process most of it as news anymore. but they canā€™t have our joy. so i guess this is once again your reminder to keep finding joy wherever you can, weā€™re gonna make it through this togetheršŸ¤

the manuscript was performed as song 38 and song 138 of ttpd leg

sooo it turns out iā€™m finally done fucking around about being made to feel like iā€™m too difficult to love and care about. idc how many years weā€™ve been best friends. if i canā€™t be me around you, if you are determined to make me feel like iā€™m too much and too exhausting, then you can fuck right offšŸ™„šŸ™„

having chappell roan as a teen would have changed my life, not even a slight exaggeration

Someone told me today that I'm too sensitive. I prefer to call it humanity. I'd rather be this way than behaving like the rest of the world right now, who seem to no longer give a fuck about anyone or anything.

so i leap from the gallows and i levitate down your street crash the party like a record scratch as i scream whoā€™s afraid of little old me?!?!!!! god i miss the tour visuals for this. the whole performance is permanently seared into my brain, but this line has been stuck on repeat all day

god the inner child letter that is Robin is HITTING today "Buried down deep and out of your reach, The secret we all vowed to keep it, from you, in sweetness" All of the protective mechanisms she developed, however misguided, however currently unhelpful, were ultimately to protect her younger self

oh to be seen and known and loved and gifted lego flowersšŸ„¹šŸ„¹šŸ„¹ I came home to a surprise gift from an aunt I donā€™t see very often, but she even sent me a set I havenā€™t done before. ahhh iā€™m so excited

migrating some of my art to bsky - always grounded by this question from @prisonculture.bsky.social šŸ’›

SO MANY EASTERN BLUE BIRDS OUT HERE OMG MY HEART IS SO HAPPYšŸ„¹šŸ„¹šŸ„¹šŸ„¹ THEYā€™RE SO GORGEOUS IT ACTUALLY HURTS and @taylorswift.is-extremely.gay thank you for letting me infodump about birds lol i got a little too excitedšŸ˜‚

it snowed here last week and today iā€™m outside in a tank topšŸ˜‚ this weather is so confusing. iā€™m not complaining, iā€™m enjoying it while I can, getting some work done while sitting in the sunshine. listening to all the spring birds singing and fluttering around, momentarily unaware of the horrors

in case no one warned you the way no one warned me: your late 20s/early 30s are a lot of reparenting, reeducating, and rebuilding yourself.

someone needs to remind me next time i go to the grocery store that money isnā€™t real and nothing matters anymore. i only bought necessities and ingredients for meals for the week, and now i have no little sweet treat to end my day. not a single morsel of chocolate in this whole housešŸ˜¤

today was bad but my cat is being cute sooo i guess iā€™ll stick around to find out if tomorrow is any betteršŸ„²šŸ„²šŸ„² just sharing the cuteness in case anyone else needs it too

The US Army Chorus performed the Les MisƩrables Epilogue at the White House Governors Ball February 22nd, 2025. Source: youtu.be/pIQh_5dZUwI?...

welcome back little miss hyperindependentšŸ«  i thought i had out grown you, but nope turns out that coping mechanism existed for a reason. wow i love abandonment issues. because am i really that easy of a person to throw away?? life really fucking kicks you while youā€™re down. ouchhh. fuck everything.

thank you for the encouragementšŸ„° i truly love this little gaggle of gays in my phone who cheer me on!! update- the date isnā€™t happening anymorešŸ˜” but itā€™ll be okay & iā€™m sure in a few weeks iā€™ll be back yapping about feeling nervous whenever iā€™m ready to try again. i had to start somewhere, right?šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

I have to say, the "two Taylors" and "self as muse" readings of Taylor's work that this community introduced to me have given me such a critical framework for understanding myself. This is why art fucking MATTERS.

so iā€™m trying dating again for the first time in 4 yearsšŸ™ˆ iā€™m going on a first date w/ a really cute girl on tuesday next week & she literally called me today to remind me that itā€™s a low stress situation bc she could tell i was anxious about choosing a restaurant. wdym nice people really exist?!?šŸ„ŗšŸ„ŗ

I have been So Stressed lately and lurking in gaylor spaces really does help ily lil gay people in my phone šŸ’ž

Just got off a call where someone said, ā€œHope is not convenient. But it is necessary.ā€ And I needed to hear that today.

wahhh that second pic is so cute. she looks like she's about to wiggle her nose and make magic happen

Feeling this very much today. Via poetryisnotaluxury on Instagram.

just dropped long distance bestie off at the airport and obviously cried the entire drive home. why do all the good ones have to live so far away???? like we should be able to do all the life things together every week, not just once or twice a year. ughh GOODBYES ARE THE FUCKING WORSTšŸ˜­šŸ˜­