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cadycates.bsky.social
She/her. 🏳️‍⚧️Queer writer, painter, dungeon master, lighting designer, and mediocre @ fighting games AuDHD, Trans, Poly, and an absolute bean. DM's open to mutuals. I block bots. MDNI Write.as/CadyCates CadyCates.com (currently down)
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It’s Pride Month, give a queer person money

submitted 18 hours ago • 2 comments

*Eagle screech* 🦅🏳️‍🌈

submitted 9 hours ago • 182 comments

First look of pride. No scruff shame today. Strap up bitches, it's the most important pride of our lives.

submitted 7 hours ago • 1 comment

Any NJ moots doing Asbury pride tomorrow?

submitted 1 day ago • 0 comments

My partner just called me a super gay-an. I regret exposing them to Dragonball. I have smothered them with Blåhaj as recompense.

submitted 1 day ago • 1 comment

Oh god the dysphoria is bad this morning. I know where it came from but I'm not sure what to do about it....

submitted 3 days ago • 1 comment

Cyber Anxiety

submitted 3 days ago • 39 comments

Anyone wanna take a broken bitch out on a lunch date and let her steal your French fries?

submitted 3 days ago • 0 comments

When do pre transition pictures stop making you wanna peel your skin off?

submitted 3 days ago • 0 comments

Feeling broken is a strange feeling. Its not always clear what brings it on. But the feeling of having something necessary non functional or missing, doesn't feel like pain. It feels like desperation.

submitted 3 days ago • 0 comments

Duck off is fine too.

submitted 3 days ago • 0 comments

JUNE 14TH If you're in and around Montclair NJ, come get some comics and get them signed by me and @cerealpancake.bsky.social !! We will be at @eastsidemags.bsky.social as part of Montclair Pride!!

submitted 4 days ago • 9 comments

I wasn't very happy with the bisexual pride Eldar Voidscarred cape so I went back on it and reworked it, pushing light more and adding some fun freehand. What do you think? #warhammer40k #warhammercommunity

submitted 4 days ago • 24 comments

Just reminding myself that I'm fucking unstoppable.

submitted 6 days ago • 2 comments

All estrogenated up. No epilation today, because it's ELECTRO DAY. Let's gooooo

submitted 9 days ago • 0 comments

I know pretty much every trans person is some combination of anxiety and dread this week So this message is for cis people: This is it. Yeah, the odds of this budget stopping are slim, but if you shrug and let it happen without calling, protesting, anything you can do? You gave up on trans lives.

submitted 9 days ago • 13 comments

"You don't NEED hrt" they told me as my body starts falling apart without it "You're so valid though" they say when I talk about how I wanted to die without hrt "You just need community" they say as my community is being destroyed and dying Every single time we talk about how we need HRT to live.

submitted 10 days ago • 17 comments

🏳️‍⚧️ For US-based trans, nonbinary, and gender-diverse people: Point of Pride’s HRT Access Fund is now open for application until June 30, 2025. The recipients of this fund will be provided with 12 months of HRT-related care via the organization. More info: www.pointofpride.org/hrt-access-f...

submitted 12 days ago • 1 comment

This passed 215-214. We're going to lose our healthcare because 3 senior Dems have died this year. We lost Roe because Ginsburg didn't retire. We lost the election because Joe ran for reelection. Our country is being destroyed because geriatric Dems can't retire and let go of power.

submitted 10 days ago • 181 comments

TW: Self harm. When I thought I was a guy, my go to version of self harm was always food. Food felt good when I felt shitty, and I would go until it hurt again, because well clearly too much of a good thing wasn't actually a bad thing, and it felt real good to overeat until suddenly it didn't. -

submitted 10 days ago • 1 comment