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A music loving, book nerd, dog boy. Not an alt, but potentially more horny on main than my other corners of the internet… 🐾 He/him
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I had to talk to my mom the other day, and she really thinks I’m some fragile little gay boy. I really wanted to throw it in her face that I had to be tough and rely on myself because of her neglect, thus making it hard for me to actually lean on people (but I’m getting better at that).

The Saturday morning vibe is Unison by Celine Dion

Today is the best I’ve felt, both physically and mentally, in at least a week. So I’m going to revel in this good mood while I’ve got it.

Not me constantly checking fb messenger to see if my grandmother died. (I’m okay, mostly just marveling at the fucked up way my family communicates)

flog dog is temporarily out of commission, so we pulled out the candles this weekend.

flog dog is temporarily out of commission, so we pulled out the candles this weekend.

Did you know Phylicia Rashad recorded a disco album, Josephine Superstar, about the life of Josephine Baker?

First spin for Mary Chapin Carpenter’s Personal History.

This is my 2025 Pride Anthem: We dance in the fire Just to show how far we can go And it feels like nothing's gonna stop us And in the darkness That's how we know we'll be fine We dance in the fire

This morning’s grocery store interaction: Cashier (maybe 18): Good morning, is it a particularly happy month for you? Us: It is! Cashier: Happy Pride! Me: You too! Cashier: Did you clock me? Me: No, but since you asked, & if you aren’t, Happy Pride anyway. Cashier: Oh, it applies. Me: Happy Pride!

This week has been very kink and queer affirming for me.

Also tonight a new friend told us that he appreciated us bringing a group of queers to hang out at a brewery and gaying the place up.

Tonight a friend I hadn’t seen in a while thanked me and my husband for being welcoming and friendly when he was a baby gay.

Yesterday my bestie said it was good to see me wearing my collar and nail polish again, and that it felt weird seeing me without them. (I took them off for my MRI)

This week has been very kink and queer affirming for me.

Also tonight a new friend told us that he appreciated us bringing a group of queers to hang out at a brewery and gaying the place up.

Tonight a friend I hadn’t seen in a while thanked me and my husband for being welcoming and friendly when he was a baby gay.

Yesterday my bestie said it was good to see me wearing my collar and nail polish again, and that it felt weird seeing me without them. (I took them off for my MRI)

My best friend spent the last few days with us because he was in town for his dad’s funeral. He’s heading to the airport now and mentioned it was a nice visit despite the circumstances. I said, “that’s what we do, we make horrible situations fun.”

Icelandic pups go "Björk björk"

Some survivors will revisit the gay nightclub for the first time since the 2016 tragedy claimed 49 innocent lives.

I had to get an MRI yesterday, and when it started feeling overwhelming I tried to think of the repetitive knocking and beeping as no different than a hypno loop file. Last night I had some pretty intense hypno dreams and woke up FERAL this morning.

Nine years. Our hearts are with the victims, survivors, and all those forever changed by the Pulse tragedy on June 12, 2016. We stand with you in love and remembrance. #OrlandoStrong #WeWillNeverForget

My favorite stress position. Nipple clamps threaded under my cage.

@gaypotatopharmpig.bsky.social your profile photo is perfection!

I should be at home getting used like a pup shaped fleshjack. Not out in the world dealing with stupid people bullshit.

The new Mary Chapin Carpenter album is lovely. I could use a healthy dose of her special blend of quiet reflection.

I Know A Place by MUNA is another of those songs that can make me tear up with any random listen.

This is where I’d like to be this weekend. Instead, I’m about to head to a family reunion.

In her autobiography Donna Summer talks about wanting to be known as a songwriter too, and I wish she had talked about that more in the book. Her music career comes across as incidental to the narrative.

Today I learned that Donna Summer has an Oscar for Last Dance.

No cops at Pride includes the cop in your head who tells you to police other queer people. Learn the difference between being uncomfortable and being harmed. Deal with your discomfort on your own time. Pride is for the community, not just you.

ON THIS DAY IN GAY HISTORY:

Final Destination: Bloodlines was fun. I forgot how much those movies give me anxiety, and I had to leave the theater for one death scene (not saying which because spoilers…). Still, a fun night at the movies.

Can I call in “dog” to work today?

The fact that I’m starting Pride Month with more neck pain from dancing at Disco Night last night is homophobic.

Happy Pride Month! I’d like to once again lodge a complaint against social media accounts that post supportive Pride messages, but then allow the comments sections turn into anti-gay cesspools.

This is the first year I was able to help my husband get a Father’s Day card for my father-in-law without crying about my dead dad, and I even picked the card.