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About me...42. NC. Taurus. Brigadier General of the 69th Division Black Bald Bearded Menace Brigade. Good Guy. Turned Villian. Turned Antihero. More to me than meets the eye...alot more.

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Affect - F*ck around Effect - find out

submitted 6 hours ago • 2 comments

When I was a lifeguard, I dated a nurse for 4 years. She made way more than I made, but it didn't change a thing. I'd still ask her out and pay for dates and all sorts of things for her. I wasn't insecure. I was proud of her because she worked hard to get to her status.

submitted 7 hours ago • 1 comment

Please date Men who are considerate. Men who pay attention to small details. Men who know you're overthinking & gently reassure you without making you feel dramatic. They plan dates & surprises for you Men who can detect even a small change in your behaviour & try to uplift your mood

submitted 9 hours ago • 12 comments

slow peaceful mornings >

submitted 17 hours ago • 0 comments

Since I'm sitting here for the next few hours, getting my windshield repaired, indulge me.

submitted 17 hours ago • 1 comment

Yes as long as it's not the only way a person is complimented. Ultimately it would depend on the type of relationship and consent. Now for me? I'll take lustful compliments all day.

submitted 17 hours ago • 0 comments

Yall my fault. I forgot to specify. I prefer a ghost over a roach bc a roach flew and headbutted me dead in the mouth a while back. That was on me. My fault. Obviously my cognitive is still a little rocked by that encounter lol!

submitted 18 hours ago • 1 comment

I'll take the ghost. Especially if it's the Casper type. I'm still mad about the one that literally squared up with me, flew and headbutted me in the mouth.

submitted 18 hours ago • 1 comment

Peaceful with plenty of Love, Peace, and Soooouuuullllll! Yall don't know about Soul Train....

submitted 21 hours ago • 0 comments

Debt

submitted 21 hours ago • 0 comments

Trust and communication

submitted 21 hours ago • 0 comments

Having experienced it, knowing how good it feels.

submitted 21 hours ago • 0 comments

Being on the receiving end of my top 3 love languages: Words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch(these days heavy on that part)

submitted 21 hours ago • 0 comments

My divorce. If you know you know. If you dont...you don't wanna go through it.

submitted 21 hours ago • 0 comments

Bout the same as my answer for romance. But throw in planning for a life with one another.

submitted 21 hours ago • 0 comments

A movie A meal A nice walk A hug or kiss and interest in another date to end the current one. (Nightcap is optional)

submitted 21 hours ago • 0 comments

Affect - F*ck around Effect - find out

When I was a lifeguard, I dated a nurse for 4 years. She made way more than I made, but it didn't change a thing. I'd still ask her out and pay for dates and all sorts of things for her. I wasn't insecure. I was proud of her because she worked hard to get to her status.

Please date Men who are considerate. Men who pay attention to small details. Men who know you're overthinking & gently reassure you without making you feel dramatic. They plan dates & surprises for you Men who can detect even a small change in your behaviour & try to uplift your mood

slow peaceful mornings >

Since I'm sitting here for the next few hours, getting my windshield repaired, indulge me.

Yes as long as it's not the only way a person is complimented. Ultimately it would depend on the type of relationship and consent. Now for me? I'll take lustful compliments all day.

Yall my fault. I forgot to specify. I prefer a ghost over a roach bc a roach flew and headbutted me dead in the mouth a while back. That was on me. My fault. Obviously my cognitive is still a little rocked by that encounter lol!

I'll take the ghost. Especially if it's the Casper type. I'm still mad about the one that literally squared up with me, flew and headbutted me in the mouth.

Peaceful with plenty of Love, Peace, and Soooouuuullllll! Yall don't know about Soul Train....

Debt

Trust and communication

Having experienced it, knowing how good it feels.

Being on the receiving end of my top 3 love languages: Words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch(these days heavy on that part)

My divorce. If you know you know. If you dont...you don't wanna go through it.

Bout the same as my answer for romance. But throw in planning for a life with one another.

A movie A meal A nice walk A hug or kiss and interest in another date to end the current one. (Nightcap is optional)

When not a day goes by where I don't think of making their life better and giving them the absolute best.

My friend Alex(RIP). He did alot for me.

Dependable, Driven, Mannerable

Humbleness