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corvidpflucker.bsky.social
Nurse, gamer, educator, reader of many books, and AuDHD enough to never really get much done. Pattern recognition is my superpower.
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Hot take, how about we not do another war! How about we go back to the treaty and negotiations that worked. That sounds like a better idea!

In life do the scary thing. Talk to the person, take the chance, go out to the one nice dinner. Carpe a little diem. Because you only live once!

The longer I am married the more wisdom I find in placing the relationship over the marriage.

Spent yesterday with my husband and kids. We played games, ate good food and laughed so much. Having a full partner in life and in the buisness of our family has been priceless! We have traded off the role of "house spouse" many times over our marriage and it benefited our family.

We the people are fed up, tired and ready for whatever comes next! 3.5% of the population is what it takes for meaningful change in government. Yesterday proved we are there. Keep it up, keep organizing locally! Keep making mutual aid networks!

Huh who would have guessed that 1 cry session didn't fix the underlying stress of moving and I am still sad and angry and disregulated. Well fuck, now I have to do real self care.

Also, I feel bad for complaining about moving because I know how much privilege I have that I get to move. And how much bigger things are happening that are worth fighting for right now. I wish I had energy for both, or all the things that deserve energy. I also know Maslow's.

I had a whole ass 3 hour cry session Saturday night. My poor autistic brain was done and everything was loud, big, stressful, and scary. Moving is the worst! My partner was exactly what I want to be for them, comforting, affirming of feelings, and supportive. It was a good cry!

The thing about AuDHD is that I both love and hate moving! I love a new place, I love moving forward, and I hate all change. I love setting up new systems that work better and better flow layouts, and I hate working out new flows.

4 facts about autism and ADHD that you probably didn't know... 1. According to research, up to 80% of children with an autism diagnosis also meet the criteria for ADHD and up to 50% of children with an ADHD diagnosis also meet the criteria for autism, BUT...

I hate circumcision! I think it is a stupid practice that should go away. If you do it for anything but a religious reason you may need to rethink your ability to evaluate data and critically think. I also fully support families making medical decisions! Even when I disagree with those decisions.

If you do any work on your house please for the love of god find out if you need permits. Building codes are a good thing. Safe homes are a good thing. And if you choose not to. Dont lie about it when selling your house. Cause someone like me may be your buyer and I will find out.

@rbreich.bsky.social For the love of all that is holy Wikipedia needs a citation for where your son @samreich.bsky.social was born!!! Was he there the whole time?!?!?!? (Look things look super bad and scary and I need a momentary reprieve to stay sane)

You are not responsible for the trauma or abuse that leads to your tiggers. You are responsible for how you communicate the feelings that come from it, and your actions. Self knowledge is the greatest power one can have.

If you have never had the chance to people watch at that largest Costo in the world you have missed out! The very wide crosssection of humanity is delightful! It reminds me how we are all neighbors, and should care about eachother.

Also the "Big beautiful budget bill" Is the death panels Republicans were scared of with the ACA but it is them choosing to kill people by removing medical coverage. "If they would rather die, than they had better do it, and decrease the surplus population." Literally scrooge!

Pregnancy is not a benign condition! It always has risks! If you have a new medical condition that has not been fully evaluated and diagnosed DO NOT TRY TO GET PREGNANT! thank you for listening to my TED Talk

I have been thinking a lot about end of life planning and care because of my work. 1. Please have a comprehensive plan for your old age! Plan for disability and death! 2. There are worse things than death! Death is not the worst outcome possible for yourself or your beloved family member.