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Hi, I’m Haven! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ I'm a vegetarian trans woman who loves women, doggos, programming, math, board games, D&D, and geeking out with enthusiastic people. Expect friendly posts about queer joy 🌈 and nerdy stuff.
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Meta have reportedly removed Pride and LGBTQ+ themes from Facebook Messenger just days after changes to hate speech rules which will allow users to call queer people “mentally ill”. (So yeah, need to move some family to a new messaging app. Telegrams out for being "too difficult". Suggestions?)

Wishing I felt better now!

Happy holidays everyone! I hope you all have a lovely day x

I'm finding myself so easily caught up in negativity and rage posts. Time to take a deep breath and try to focus on the positives. Giving people nice big squishy hugs.

Random musing of the day: What would be different about the world if the standard weekend was instead Wednesday and Sunday? I feel like generally it would be worse but that we might have high speed rail to get more done in a single day. Not sure, I'm gonna think about this some more.

My Christmas dresses simultaneously are not warm enough and cover up too much to feel gorgeous. This is the worst possible outcome.

If the NHS can help cis teens whose puberty is affecting them in negative ways then surely they can help trans teens in the same situation! How does this make me feel? Angry. Angry and so damn scared. Why is targeting children somehow seen as acceptable? www.thepinknews.com/2024/12/11/w...

strategy

‘I just want a humble, murderously simple thing: that a person be glad when I walk into the room.’ (Marina Tsvetaeva, from ‘On Love’.)

My friends say I give off Glinda vibes! (Is this a sign I need to work on myself or do I double down on this?)

Finally went to go see Wicked! It was lovely! So many parallels with the politics today which was interesting.

Conversations with the 8yo DM: 8yo DM: Your new character is Durv Lundfeld. He is an older dwarven fighter who is immune to thieves. Me: How is he immune to thieves? 8yo DM: He doesn’t own anything. #dnd

For the programmer geeks out there. I know you exist.

Wanting a playlist setting that loops the same song like 5 times before going onto the next one. I get a song in my head and I want to listen to it again and again. I'm probably screwed when I go see wicked at the weekend.

And some of the people who want the later protections are trying to push down the first domino!

Trans veteran Chelsea Manning charged with “crowding, obstructing, or incommoding.” following US Capitol bathroom protest Police reportedly threatened [the protestors], with sexual misconduct charges if they didn’t leave the women’s lavatories. www.thepinknews.com/2024/12/06/c...

I think it's flattering when people go through my old posts and like them. Doesn't matter if they've been up for days or weeks. If it makes you smile lemme know. Making people happy makes me happy