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It’s tragic how often we judge someone’s behavior but don’t name their pain.

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To not have your suffering recognized is an almost unbearable form of violence.

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And so I cry sometimes when I'm lying in bed Just to get it all out, what's in my head And I, I am feeling a little peculiar And so I wake in the morning and I step outside And I take a deep breath and I get real high And I scream from the top of my lungs "What's going on?"

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After certain things happen, you simply don't feel the same way about people anymore, no matter who they are.

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It’s common for trauma survivors to excel in life-or-death crises, yet, struggle with tasks like putting out the trash or taking a shower.

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Something in me died that day and I know I'll never be the same again.

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Crazy how trauma isn't your fault but it's your responsibility to heal.

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I Am Not Okay My BFF of 58 years sent me this song this morning. youtu.be/Qop5XLgwkNc?... I am not okay I'm barely getting by I'm losing track of days And losing sleep at night I am not okay I'm hanging on the rails So if I say I'm fine Just know I learned to hide it well

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Far too often autism, ADHD, trauma, mood disorders are misdiagnosed as BPD. Let that sink in.

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Trying to heal from cPTSD and complex grief is a Herculean task. No one comprehends the pain and suffering.

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I have never been offered this type of understanding by my therapist sibling.

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My therapist sibling did this to me. Consistently and constantly.

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If a family member experiences further trauma because they spoke up about being abused, that family is abusive. No nuance needed.

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Self harm isn’t just cutting yourself. It’s starving yourself. It’s binge eating. It’s intentionally putting yourself at risk. It’s burning yourself or picking at scabs. We all have scars just some aren’t visible.

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Our mother stands five foot three Soon to be two times three What she would give for a ringy ding ding But I'm sure she won't hear anything

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There are people in your life who've come and gone They let you down, you know they hurt your pride You better put it all behind you, baby, 'cause life goes on You keep carrying that anger, it'll eat you up inside

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These times are so uncertain There's a yearning undefined And people filled with rage We all need a little tenderness How can love survive in such a graceless age The trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness They're the very things we kill, I guess

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Today is my mom's birthday. I'm grateful I and others get to celebrate. "So you can stick your little pins in that voodoo doll I'm very sorry, baby, doesn't look like me at all I'm standing by the window where the light is strong Ah, they don't let a woman kill you, not in the Tower of Song"

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Une salade wedge🥬 Du bœuf Stroganoff 🥩 De la champagne Tattinger 🥂 Bonne année à tous! 🎉🎉

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I deserve to be surrounded by people who bring out my soft side – rather than those who trigger my survival side.

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Sometimes I wake up & have to remind myself: "There is nothing wrong with me. I have patterns to unlearn, new behaviors to embody & wounds to heal. But there is nothing wrong with the core of me & who l am. I am unlearning years sibling harm and remembering love. It takes time."

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Sometimes being a loner is a trauma response. You’re so use to people you love not showing up for you or walking away or you may have grown up in a toxic environment. That the only one you could depend on was YOU! So you naturally feel safe when you’re alone

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No person is ever going to heal, grow, or adapt better by being told their reaction to getting hurt isn’t valid. My sibling who is a therapist invalidated my grief, pain and suffering by discounting my trauma grief and pain. Therapist Sibling is the only one allowed to experience grief, pain, trauma

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There is still much unknown about cPTSD because it’s the result of things people were never meant to endure.

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We need to talk about how narcissistic individuals are attracted to this field of work...[Therapists].

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I've come across therapists who are narcissists.

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Tell me what you think about borderline personality disorder (BPD).” So called BPD is a group of behaviours seen in victims of narcissists/psychopaths. If the therapist answers the questions very clinically or cognitively, or obviously lacking in compassion = black mark.

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From a therapist: During my internship as a psychologist & working as a therapist myself, I've heard some truly damaging remarks made by therapists to clients We're people too, and if we don't work on our own stuff & remain aware of any potential projection, a therapist can do great HARM.

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There needs to be more dialogue about how often people are traumatized by bad therapy because the practitioner is in the field to avoid doing their own work. They use their clients to have control over someone else’s life because they lack the courage to take control of their own.

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My sibling, who is a grief counselor, discarded, demeaned, discounted and denied my grief. Therapist sibling's grief was the only grief allowed. Don't trust those who disallow your grief even if they claim to be an expert in the field.

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If they don’t follow you here, then they weren’t really following you in the first place.

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If they don’t follow you here, then they weren’t really following you in the first place.

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BREAKING: The Trump team has been made aware today of serious “sexual misconduct" allegations against Pete Hegseth, Trump’s nominee for Secretary of Defense. According to the Vanity Fair report, the allegation was serious enough that Wiles and Trump’s lawyers spoke to Hegseth about it today.

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