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ersatzwhale.bsky.social
Mid-forties white guy in Toronto who used his dating profile as a creative outlet more than anything. You smell terrific.
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I’m somewhat oblivious, but I wasn’t oblivious to the time a 17-year-old her (we are the same age) made it impossible for me to not put her arm around her. The other time was when a woman said “I like you.” I had the presence of mind to say “I like you, too.”

submitted 57 days ago • 1 comment

I'll enable my profiles on New Year’s Eve in the hopes of recreating the moment where I stayed up all night and matched with a woman at 3 AM, whom I would go on two dates with.

submitted 62 days ago • 0 comments

It was fun thinking a reply to my Doublelist post was real.

submitted 88 days ago • 0 comments

20 years ago we had craigslist casual encounters. now we have no craigs, no list, and no encounters

submitted 669 days ago • 16 comments

Since it’s the Fuck It Era again, I’m thinking about what it would be great to do and nobody would bat an eyelash.

submitted 111 days ago • 2 comments

I thought so.

submitted 111 days ago • 0 comments

Pretty badly so far.

submitted 111 days ago • 0 comments

Are there any Bluesky accounts by women that show chats with sweet or charming or interesting men that don’t sexually harass women in online dating?

submitted 391 days ago • 0 comments

Are there any other straight, single, mid-forties white guys who live in a big city who were ever in my predicament? Which is to say, that of a straight, single, mid-forties white guy who lives in a big city.

submitted 391 days ago • 0 comments