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Building sustainable income while parenting, grieving, & neurospicy living. 🌈♾️🪄 https://linktr.ee/chaotic_author_mom
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Another reminder that AUTISM IS NOT A DISEASE! We dnt need a cure. There's nothing needing a cure. We know what causes this difference. We need SUPPORT & more/better trained medical professionals who understand autism Your autistic child is not injured bc they're autistic. Stop it.

I'm putting out less content, bc I'm being more intentional abt it. I'm reading again, writing my own books, playing video games, & learning. I enjoy all of it

iPad accessories upgrade! Clear glitter slim #iPadCase by ESR mag safe, Pencil still charges amzn.to/4lNaH7e Folding tablet/phone stand. Rly lightweight, also stable. Multiple tilt angles. amzn.to/44D5CYY Commission earned. All arrived w/in a few days w/o Prime shipping. Purchased w/my own $

Unfortunately, we're all looking for a #sidehustle these days. So I'm writing a series on how to filter the scams from the real opportunities! Be sure to hit the subscribe button to keep up with all the rest of the #sidehustleideas for this series. open.substack.com/pub/yourfabu...

1st photo: right now, no makeup, pj's, hangin out watching The Mentalist & eating marshmallow peeps when I should be writing. 2nd photo: Easter Dinner w/the fam, normal clothes, makeup done, trying to look like I made some effort 😂 I prefer the 1st any day. Happy Easter to all who celebrate!

Fuck you RFK Jr.

At it's core, Canva is a user friendly way for small business owners & casual users alike to create their own graphics. In my upcoming Canva guide, I won't be talking abt the Generatibe AI features. I dnt agree w/the practice but wnt condemn the entire program for it.

What a satisfying moment it is to write “THE END” on a piece ready to go out into the world. No wait…first I need to get this by beta readers, then edits, then do a cover design, more edits, market the release, final edits, market more, and THEN it can go out into the world.

Sneak peak for the prequel short to my sapphic #ContemporaryRomance series by Amaryllis Dawn. Coming soon to #KindleUnlimited!

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It's been awhile, but I'm trying. #GriefAndLoss #GriefJourney #LossOfASibling open.substack.com/pub/yourfabu...

I have writing for clients to get done. I have writing for myself to get done. I'm planning my garden. I'm parenting two special needs kids. I'm working on writing patterns & recipes for a future Patreon. Making videos abt all for my YouTube channel. This is how I cope. By building a future.

Fuck taxes. I wldnt mind paying them if they provided services for the general public. But when those services are gutted & tax dollars fund military contractors & tax cuts/loopholes for the 1% ....then I dnt want to do it. I will. I just rly dnt want to. #taxday #depressing

Big kiddo's first tooth just came out. She's 7 & severely autistic so the new tooth coming in is making her melt down 24/7. Hoping the magnesium gummies on the way in the grocery order will help calm her. 🤞🤞🤞

A peaceful Saturday dinner after a day of writing. Husband took the kids to his sister's so I can have a break. Is it weird that I miss them after only a few hours? #wfhmomlife

Not a single word to help the 33m small businesses in this country. Not from anyone in the administration. So many buy from China, and don't have alternatives. So many didn't have the cash to front run the tariffs and buy inventory

I have 2 long term ghostwriting contracts ending soon & it's time to send out proposals to my wait list & on Upwork for new contracts. I hate this part. But it's the way of freelancing. My print on demand shop may no longer be reliable w/these tarrifs & customer shopping habits. #freelancelife

If you're in congress and you aren't publicly in favor of banning the trading of individual stocks by people in congress, get your head out of your fucking ass.

We in the US (at least those of us who didn't vote for an orange felon) are jaded, sad, kinda terrified, & entirely fucking exhausted. So, here's a photo of some linguine w/white clam sauce I made for dinner. I hope it brings you joy.

Unmedicated Xennial ADHD means spending 2hrs looking up different ways to make my own shampoo/conditioner bars, lotion bars, & soap from the flowers & herbs I plan to (but have not yet) grow in my garden...but feeling like 5mins went by. Here's to being fabulous, nerdy, & a mom in 2025! 🥂

It's 2:45am & the little one had another bad dream. I still have around 1500 words to write for my client. And I have to pee. #MomLife #Toddlermom #MomLifeStruggles

An embryo/fetus cannot maintain homeostasis on its own until it is born. It must be attached to a human body in order to continue growing. Someone tried to use this statement to say I dnt know what homeostasis is. A fetus is not a baby. It's not a child. It's not a living being. These are facts.

#TimeBlindness is a trip Me: why TF am I so hungry? I just had breakfast. My stomach: bitch, you had breakfast at 8am & it's now 2pm. Make a damn turkey sandwich & put me out of my misery. Me: it's 2pm?! 😳 My kids: snack! Snack! (They had lunch already, at 12 😂)

When your kids kept you up half the night but you still have to write romance books for clients. #freelancer #ghostwriter #momlife #TheStruggleIsReal

Pretty sure this is the year I become a #CrazyPlantLady. I need to see something actually happen from the hard work I do. Also I want to #GrowMyOwnFood. And pretty flowers. Herbal tea blends? Yep I'm gonna be a crazy plant lady. This is the year.

Someone who claims to be a critical care nurse actually tried to tell me that Tylenol can treat the measles. Their logic is it will stop high fevers that lead to febrile seizures. Which is true, bc TYLENOL TREATS FEVERS. There is no definite treatment for measles but protection by vaccination.