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Aye you…….. Yes, YOU…….. Check your tone and content when you’re talking to and about yourself. TF you think you talking to!? 🤨 Put some love and grace and empathy and compassion in your words and tone. To yourself.

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I learned to stop putting a time limit on things. It'll happen when it's meant to happen. No longer forcing any type of connections.

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We will one day understand that rejecting white supremacy includes our understand of gender, performance, and violence involved in maintaining it.

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May will attract calm, clarity, and everything aligned with your highest good. Your energy is sacred. Your peace is non-negotiable. What once felt heavy now feels effortless going into this season.

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I’m seeing that [that mf who started Bad Boy]’s trial starts soon. Please check on your friends who’ve experienced sexual/domestic violence. Those headlines are going to be everywhere, and they’ll need all the support they can get.

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Whew … this week has been a lot. I’m looking forward to relaxing Friday night.

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ALL THE GIRLS STANDING IN THE LINE FOR THE BATHROOM

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No one ever takes digital misogynoir seriously until something happens to the person being harmed offline.

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Levitate

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This! 😵‍💫

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I hope something good happens to you today.

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That’s SUCH a common mindset too. People take money conversations SO personally. And it’s because you’re insecure. You FEAR money. You feel not having it says something about your character as a person. And you need to kill that voice in your head

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Delroy lindo been great all everybody life

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I love when people find their person in this lifetime.

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Kendrick/SZA and Beyoncé are touring at the same time. That feels crazy lol

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So we getting a running back of Renny with this tour?! I can’t wait ‘til Sunday. 🤠

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I think this is why I haven’t engaged with much of the discourse. I’m still processing. My ppl are from Clarksdale and my granddaddy was born in 1932. They moved up to Chicago in ‘38.

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An older yt lady asked me for directions to SoFi & I asked if it was her first Beyonce concert. It is & she doesn’t even know how her brain chemistry is about to be altered.

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Here’s the thing about boundaries and limits. It’s not you telling me what to do or controlling my actions, it’s you telling me what you will and won’t accept.

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“I’m married.” “Happily?”

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We are so lucky to have the brilliant Ashley C. Ford (@smashfizzle.bsky.social) teaching a four-session online memoir class this summer. Register now for "Use Media and Pop Culture to Bring Your Memoir to Life," starting June 18!

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Ok, before I get my day started, Black folks, gather ‘round. Unclench your jaw, and take deep breaths; in through your nose, out through your mouth, for one minute. Have the best day you are capable of having. Come back to this post if you need it later. 🫶🏽☀️

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May your day be kind to you.

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*Black

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I hope yal find real love. Sooner or later. It’s great when done right 10/10 experience. Would do it again….. eventually

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I’m just happy I follow a lot of lovely ladies who lead with love and haven’t been nasty to others. That beauty is inside and out for them and I appreciate it

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Ohhh … this is good to know. Now I want to find a Nepalese restaurant. I live fermented food.

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Almost 500 people have signed up for my FREE webinar Tuesday 4/29 with @kundalinisteve.bsky.social. Steve and I will share our thoughts on SINNERS and Ryan Coogler's path to success and artistic freedom - and yours! REGISTER at www.iloveafrofuturism.com

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I started rewatching Scandal because I stopped watching while it was on-air after season 5, but I musta been zoned tf out bc the later half of season 3 feels all new to me. 🙃

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Why yall so committed to being negative?

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This is really good advice. Your end goal has to stay in the forefront bc it will get rough & you’ll start to question everything throughout the process.

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Good morning good ppl 🥰 I haven’t given y’all a book thread in a lil minute so here’s one inspired by Ryan Coogler’s SINNERS. This will be a mix of books I already read and loved, and a few from my TBR. All the authors are BLACK and as usual, drop a 📌 to bookmark! Let’s get started! #BlackBookSky 📚💙

Aye you…….. Yes, YOU…….. Check your tone and content when you’re talking to and about yourself. TF you think you talking to!? 🤨 Put some love and grace and empathy and compassion in your words and tone. To yourself.

I learned to stop putting a time limit on things. It'll happen when it's meant to happen. No longer forcing any type of connections.

We will one day understand that rejecting white supremacy includes our understand of gender, performance, and violence involved in maintaining it.

May will attract calm, clarity, and everything aligned with your highest good. Your energy is sacred. Your peace is non-negotiable. What once felt heavy now feels effortless going into this season.

I’m seeing that [that mf who started Bad Boy]’s trial starts soon. Please check on your friends who’ve experienced sexual/domestic violence. Those headlines are going to be everywhere, and they’ll need all the support they can get.

Whew … this week has been a lot. I’m looking forward to relaxing Friday night.

ALL THE GIRLS STANDING IN THE LINE FOR THE BATHROOM

No one ever takes digital misogynoir seriously until something happens to the person being harmed offline.

Levitate

This! 😵‍💫

I hope something good happens to you today.

That’s SUCH a common mindset too. People take money conversations SO personally. And it’s because you’re insecure. You FEAR money. You feel not having it says something about your character as a person. And you need to kill that voice in your head

Delroy lindo been great all everybody life

I love when people find their person in this lifetime.

Kendrick/SZA and Beyoncé are touring at the same time. That feels crazy lol

So we getting a running back of Renny with this tour?! I can’t wait ‘til Sunday. 🤠

I think this is why I haven’t engaged with much of the discourse. I’m still processing. My ppl are from Clarksdale and my granddaddy was born in 1932. They moved up to Chicago in ‘38.

An older yt lady asked me for directions to SoFi & I asked if it was her first Beyonce concert. It is & she doesn’t even know how her brain chemistry is about to be altered.

Here’s the thing about boundaries and limits. It’s not you telling me what to do or controlling my actions, it’s you telling me what you will and won’t accept.

“I’m married.” “Happily?”

We are so lucky to have the brilliant Ashley C. Ford (@smashfizzle.bsky.social) teaching a four-session online memoir class this summer. Register now for "Use Media and Pop Culture to Bring Your Memoir to Life," starting June 18!

Ok, before I get my day started, Black folks, gather ‘round. Unclench your jaw, and take deep breaths; in through your nose, out through your mouth, for one minute. Have the best day you are capable of having. Come back to this post if you need it later. 🫶🏽☀️

May your day be kind to you.

*Black

I hope yal find real love. Sooner or later. It’s great when done right 10/10 experience. Would do it again….. eventually

I’m just happy I follow a lot of lovely ladies who lead with love and haven’t been nasty to others. That beauty is inside and out for them and I appreciate it

Ohhh … this is good to know. Now I want to find a Nepalese restaurant. I live fermented food.

Almost 500 people have signed up for my FREE webinar Tuesday 4/29 with @kundalinisteve.bsky.social. Steve and I will share our thoughts on SINNERS and Ryan Coogler's path to success and artistic freedom - and yours! REGISTER at www.iloveafrofuturism.com

I started rewatching Scandal because I stopped watching while it was on-air after season 5, but I musta been zoned tf out bc the later half of season 3 feels all new to me. 🙃

Why yall so committed to being negative?

This is really good advice. Your end goal has to stay in the forefront bc it will get rough & you’ll start to question everything throughout the process.

An important list.

Papa Pope’s best speech is when he’s callin Fitz a boy.