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incognitoweirdo.bsky.social
Millennial Wife & Mom AuDHD Socially inept Artistic at heart Loves intellectual pursuits Slowly trying to become a DevOps Eng.
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Just found out my friend's daughter was DX with autism about 14 years ago and was told it was bc of vaccines. Now she's an antivaxxer and it hurts my heart that so many were misled. Her kids stay sick and with all the respiratory viruses going around, I'm scared for them.

Learn to identify trolls and rage baiters and don't engage with them. They're laughing while you are furiously debating them. They don't care if you're right. They feed off of the attention and knowing that you're getting upset while arguing with them.

It would behoove some people to learn how to do their own research. Stop asking people to do stuff for you when the Internet is full of information both in print and video for your preference. Set yourself up for success.

PSA: 2 things can be true at once.

Will people ever learn their lesson re: media literacy? *Checks Social Media* Nope. *Sigh*

A Story that should be breaking news right now is nowhere to be found... even from the "independent journalists". Insane.

We’re building the atproto TikTok and IT WORKS!! Spent the last 48 hours coding! 👇🏾check it out Follow along @skylight.social @reedharmeyer.bsky.social #atproto #atprotocol #tiktokban #skylight

Do we not have any US engineers skilled enough to create a new version of TikTok? I loved it for many reasons. I could go without it, but I really hate it for those whose businesses and livelihoods depended on it. And so many lives were saved as well. Whether medically, financially, or otherwise.

Befuddled at how everyone easily interacts with strangers

It's crazy reading comments from people who still think TikTok is just a bunch of teens dancing try to say how horrible the app is. They're questioning why people "don't just watch reels or shorts" instead of going to another Chinese app. Where do they think that content comes from?!🤡

I don't like visiting certain people because I hate taking my shoes off. If they visit me, I adamantly insist on them keeping their shoes on. I didn't grow up being inconvenienced in that way. And I abhor anyone who cares more about dirt than comfort. #unpopularview

Why must people insist on spreading misinformation? If you don't know something, don't guess and spread lies. Smh

At what point are you considered biracial? Is it only if your parents are full-blooded whatever? Or are we going deeper into DNA/genetics? Cuz boy do I have news for a lot of you...

I have the hardest time trying to find long sleeves for my freakishly long arms

It irks me when certain people leave comments like "they are so well spoken and intelligent" as if that's supposed to be some sort of compliment. That's micro-agression ma'am 😑

Spotify Wrapped Yeah, man😏

Looking for some "buy it for life" essentials. First up, cookware. Definitely buying 1 at a time bc $100+ per item is hurting my soul 🥴

Finna spend my life savings buying up everything before these tariffs go into effect.

Just because you learned something, doesn't mean everyone did. Especially prior to the Internet becoming widespread.

Finna make some candles for my besties

I be scrolling through social media trying to put together the pieces of all the different conversations going on. It's like a neverending puzzle. I love it.

ADHD paralysis/Autistic burnout has been kicking my butt this year. Omg I need a year off to reset or something.

Bidets with all the bells and whistles>>>>>>>

How long did it take you to realize that a 401k didn't mean you needed to save 401k to retire, but that it's a tax code? Far, far too long for me. I believe I was mid to late 20s.

Finna make me and my hubby get certified in sisterlocs so he can maintain my hair after I get locs and we can start a side hustle cuz these folks out here making 3x what I make an hour and I work in Tech!

I really need to stick with one hobby so I can get really good at it and feel proud of myself. But maybe my hobby could be trying hobbies. That doesn't make me proud, though, just broke.

I wish I were a makeup girly. I wanna look glam and cute all the time. But alas, I'm a plain Jane 🥲

I can't remember song lyrics like I used to, so I just vibe now. Jojo, Glo, and Meg on repeat and don't know a single song by heart. Shameful.

If 789, then that means that there is no real number above 8 since 7 devours them immediately. ... Just a random lunchtime thought

Legit randomly saw a blimp while picking up my groceries. Never seen one irl before

Staring at my work computer with a cold cup of tea beside me, wondering if I can retire yet. The answer is a resounding guffaw and a snort, but a girl can dream.

Those of you who grew up labelled "gifted", what is your current job/career? I'm a Software Support Specialist. My brain wants to be a Project Manager, but my social anxiety is ROFL at me.

I've always been in awe at how millions of people easily say what is on their mind at any moment and post it. Y'all are the real MVPs. You've kept me entertained for years. Bsky seems like the perfect place for me to start contributing. I just have to figure out what I've got to share🤔

I have major social anxiety, among other things. This will be my first attempt at actually being social on social media as a millennial. I'm scared.