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infinitepolyam.bsky.social
She/Her | HTX | Queer | 42 | Mom 24ish years non- monogamous Polyamory life, activism, education, humor Challenging your viewpoints on relationships https://linktr.ee/infinitepolyam
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You shouldn’t feel the need to tell someone who’s being hateful towards polyamory that “polyamory isn’t for everyone and monogamy is valid too.” You don’t have to validate the normative way of relating when they’re being negative.

submitted 6 days ago • 1 comment

Polyamorous people: How does polyamory show up in your life in ways that have nothing to do with romantic/sexual partners? Or do you find it doesn’t apply outside of partnership?

submitted 19 days ago • 0 comments

The polyamory community centers heterosexual relationships far too often. Yeah, I said it.

submitted 20 days ago • 0 comments

Heads up that @ayamisart.bsky.social has been removed from the Polyam Community Starter Pack because their current pinned post declares that they've been a psyop account to sew discord among Leftists. Their replies are full of racist shit, too.

submitted 27 days ago • 1 comment

I just finished the first episode of Polyfamily (no spoilers) and I feel good about it so far. I’m obviously going to be biased as someone in community with them and who has seen much of their content (as many of us have). #Polyfamily #polyamory

submitted 29 days ago • 1 comment

I’ve been neglecting my Bluesky. Usually I post here whatever I post to threads, but sometimes I forget. I find myself still far more engaged over there. Don’t forget to check me out there too, plus IG and TikTok if you like video content. www.threads.com/@infinitepol...

submitted 32 days ago • 0 comments

I don’t want to be anyone’s everything. I want partners to have a life outside of me. Have hobbies, have friends, have other partners, go on a vacation without me, go for a walk, make your own decisions. #polyamory

submitted 32 days ago • 0 comments

#Polyamory Tip: Close friendships can take up emotional space that would otherwise go to partners. Consider your close friends when you're considering whether or not you're polysaturated!

submitted 33 days ago • 0 comments

For a group of people who loves to scream “I could never be polyamorous, I don’t share!” they sure do love to share their opinions about polyamory

submitted 41 days ago • 1 comment

As an African decolonial socialist activist, I feel that there's a lot that folks in the nonwestern world need to decolonise, and sex and sexuality, are crucial parts of it. There's so much white Western colonial influence in nonwestern relationship with sex, relationships, etc. Long 🧵

submitted 41 days ago • 2 comments

The best comment I ever got on my social media is when someone told me I’m only polyamorous so I have ideas for content creation It was a few years ago and I WISH I could find it!

submitted 43 days ago • 1 comment

Just so you’re aware, if you wear glasses, that’s a mobility aid and you’re disabled. Glasses are just so normalized that most people don’t see it as such. Imagine if most mobility aids were that way. Imagine how much more respect disabled people would get. It’s completely possible.

submitted 44 days ago • 17 comments

All Im gonna say on it is being polyamorous is no more my choice being asexual, being trans, or being demi-romantic. Folks can choose not to be in a relationship with any sexuality. Like my partner & I choose to be only with one another. We're both still poly & queer tho. Sexuality isnt a choice.

submitted 44 days ago • 1 comment

Yes, you’re the ONLY person left who is interested in monogamy. There are zero others and it’s the fault of all the polyamorous people on dating apps. So many have multiple partners and aren’t leaving any for the rest of you. Yes that’s it. We get it.

submitted 44 days ago • 5 comments

The bad thing about polyamory is it means more people who share their awful taste in movies with you The good thing about polyamory is it means more people who share their amazing taste in movies with you I usually encounter the former

submitted 51 days ago • 2 comments

I need to know - is it called ethical monogamy or consensual monogamy?

submitted 57 days ago • 2 comments

🔍 Seeking Participants! Do you have experience w/polyamory? We'd love to talk to you! 🌈 Participate in both/or: 1️⃣ Quick Anonymous Survey: tinyurl.com/openCNM 2️⃣ In-Depth Interview: Email [email protected] to share your story. Know someone who fits? Please share! 💌

submitted 58 days ago • 2 comments

Sounds like an opportunity for a new polyamory term!!!!!!!! I’ll vote for metamom, metadad, metaparent(s). But seriously I never know what to call my bf’s father in law other than his name.

submitted 59 days ago • 3 comments

One thing I love is hearing non non monogamous people explain polyamory to another non non monogamous person, but explaining it with the most non non monogamous POV that makes it not incorrect but not fully correct either Good try, you’re getting there!

submitted 62 days ago • 0 comments

What’s wild is holding various pieces of polyamorous relationships to monogamous viewpoints of relationships

submitted 72 days ago • 1 comment

Sometimes polyamory includes doing things like going to the bank to have an updated medical power of attorney notarized, listing 2 partners who can make decisions. My life as a polyamorous person has changed much over the years because….well I’m a lot older now. My partners are getting older.

submitted 75 days ago • 1 comment

I’ve seen a few posts asking polyamorous people to admit we want to sleep with multiple people ….y’all they’re onto us! 😈

submitted 75 days ago • 2 comments

I’ve heard there are some people who have more than one friend but I just think they didn’t find the right friend first and now have to go out seeking others. I’m not judging tho…

submitted 76 days ago • 1 comment