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Your ultimate guide to stepping into your It Girl era Self-care and advice for the modern muse. 💖✨ Give your own advice when we post #ItGirlsHelp 🆘 Send anonymous submissions to: [email protected] Page run by @lavivasiren.bsky.social
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I embrace the sacrifices necessary to step into my next chapter. Growth requires discipline, elevation demands letting go, and my future is worth it. I trust the process because I am built for more. ✨

I embrace the sacrifices necessary to step into my next chapter. Growth requires discipline, elevation demands letting go, and my future is worth it. I trust the process because I am built for more. ✨

starting my own brand and holding assets through an LLC .. #blacksky ✨

What’s something you’ve accomplished that you don’t get to brag about enough? Share your WINS! 💖✨

What’s something you’ve accomplished that you don’t get to brag about enough? Share your WINS! 💖✨

My bank account stays full, my opportunities stay endless, and my lifestyle stays luxurious. Money flows to me effortlessly because I am that girl. ✨💸 #ItGirlAffirmations

My bank account stays full, my opportunities stay endless, and my lifestyle stays luxurious. Money flows to me effortlessly because I am that girl. ✨💸 #ItGirlAffirmations

Happy Valentine’s Day It Girls! 💖 Today, celebrate love in all forms, self-love, romance, and the luxury of being adored. Whether you’re being spoiled or spoiling yourself, remember: an It Girl always moves with grace, elegance, and confidence. Embrace self care, and shine. 💋✨🍾🥂 #ItGirlComplex

Happy Valentine’s Day It Girls! 💖 Today, celebrate love in all forms, self-love, romance, and the luxury of being adored. Whether you’re being spoiled or spoiling yourself, remember: an It Girl always moves with grace, elegance, and confidence. Embrace self care, and shine. 💋✨🍾🥂 #ItGirlComplex

Life is too short to hold onto negativity! Today, I’m choosing happiness, peace, and freedom because I deserve it ✨😊💖 #ItGirlAffirmations

Life is too short to hold onto negativity! Today, I’m choosing happiness, peace, and freedom because I deserve it ✨😊💖 #ItGirlAffirmations

Today, I let go of old habits that no longer serve me and embrace new, positive ones. ✨ I am choosing routines that nourish my mind, body, and soul. 💖💆🏽‍♀️ Every small step I take leads me to a healthier, happier, and more elevated version of myself. 💫 #ItGirlAffirmations

Today, I let go of old habits that no longer serve me and embrace new, positive ones. ✨ I am choosing routines that nourish my mind, body, and soul. 💖💆🏽‍♀️ Every small step I take leads me to a healthier, happier, and more elevated version of myself. 💫 #ItGirlAffirmations

No matter how big or small, do something nice for yourself. Even if that means taking a few minutes to be in silence. Self-care is important, especially in this moment. Love yourself 💜

Had a meltdown. Ate some cookies. . Self care.

Want to be effortlessly charismatic? Here’s some tips: Own the room - Walk with confidence, make eye contact, and speak with ease. Your energy sets the tone! Be Magnetic – Show real interest and ask engaging questions Leave a Mark – A well-timed joke, compliment or story makes you unforgettable!💖

Want to be effortlessly charismatic? Here’s some tips: Own the room - Walk with confidence, make eye contact, and speak with ease. Your energy sets the tone! Be Magnetic – Show real interest and ask engaging questions Leave a Mark – A well-timed joke, compliment or story makes you unforgettable!💖

End the friendship.

Was the block button not available cuz uhhh

cut them both off & move on with life.

🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘 My best friend’s man stays in my DMs liking pics, flirting, even asking to “see me” while she was out of town. I showed her receipts & she said I misread it. Now she’s acting funny to me & he’s unsending messages. Do I try again or let her learn the hard way? What would you do?

🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘 My best friend’s man stays in my DMs liking pics, flirting, even asking to “see me” while she was out of town. I showed her receipts & she said I misread it. Now she’s acting funny to me & he’s unsending messages. Do I try again or let her learn the hard way? What would you do?

Everything is unfolding in my favor ✨ In this moment, I am safe, supported, and exactly where I need to be ☁️💖 I release worry and embrace peace, knowing that all is well. Right here, right now, I am aligned with abundance, love, and limitless possibilities 🌿💫 #ItGirlAffirmations

Everything is unfolding in my favor ✨ In this moment, I am safe, supported, and exactly where I need to be ☁️💖 I release worry and embrace peace, knowing that all is well. Right here, right now, I am aligned with abundance, love, and limitless possibilities 🌿💫 #ItGirlAffirmations

Boost your confidence with these 3 actionable tips: 1. Stand tall and maintain good posture. Confidence starts with body language. 2. Take 5 minutes each morning to visualize your goals and success. 3. Say ‘NO’ to negativity. Protect your energy at all costs. You’re unstoppable! 💅🏾✨

Boost your confidence with these 3 actionable tips: 1. Stand tall and maintain good posture. Confidence starts with body language. 2. Take 5 minutes each morning to visualize your goals and success. 3. Say ‘NO’ to negativity. Protect your energy at all costs. You’re unstoppable! 💅🏾✨

I am a wise, capable, beautiful being, and I trust in my ability to create the life I desire. Everything I need is already within me. I’m ready to shine. ✨ #ItGirlAffirmations

Feeling some Social Anxiety? Here’s a few tips: - Breathe deep and calm your mind. 💖 - Start small a smile or quick hello. 😊 - Prep a conversation starter: “What brought you here?” 💬 - Focus on others - listen, observe, and engage. 🌸 Confidence grows with practice. You got this, babe! 💅🏾✨

WAIT. Never change yourself for someone else.

🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘 I’m a plus-sized black woman and dating feels like a losing game. Men either fetishize me or make my weight the dealbreaker. The last guy told me I’d be perfect if I lost weight. Do I change myself to find love, or wait for someone who loves me as I am? What’s your advice?

🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘 I’m a plus-sized black woman and dating feels like a losing game. Men either fetishize me or make my weight the dealbreaker. The last guy told me I’d be perfect if I lost weight. Do I change myself to find love, or wait for someone who loves me as I am? What’s your advice?

Feeling some Social Anxiety? Here’s a few tips: - Breathe deep and calm your mind. 💖 - Start small a smile or quick hello. 😊 - Prep a conversation starter: “What brought you here?” 💬 - Focus on others - listen, observe, and engage. 🌸 Confidence grows with practice. You got this, babe! 💅🏾✨

The ONLY way to live 💯🥰👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽

It will happen at the right time because it’s already aligned with my journey ✨. I’m not chasing it. I’m attracting 🌸. I am patient, at ease, and trusting the process. No anxiety. Just faith. #ItGirlAffirmations

THIS 🦋🤍

Even though I’m in between jobs, I am still worthy. ✨ My value is not tied to what I produce. The right opportunity is coming at the right time. Employed or not, my worth is constant. I am worthy. Period. 💖 #ItGirlAffirmations #SelfWorth #Empowerment

Even though I’m in between jobs, I am still worthy. ✨ My value is not tied to what I produce. The right opportunity is coming at the right time. Employed or not, my worth is constant. I am worthy. Period. 💖 #ItGirlAffirmations #SelfWorth #Empowerment

I am worthy of chasing my dreams and manifesting the life I desire. 💫 My confidence is my superpower, and I’m ready to claim everything meant for me. 💖 #ItGirlAffirmations #DreamBig

🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘 My partner wants to show affection publicly, but I’m not ready to do that yet. The thought of holding hands or kissing in public terrifies me. How do I handle this discomfort without hurting him? He thinks I may need therapy.

🆘 #ItGirlsHelp 🆘 My partner wants to show affection publicly, but I’m not ready to do that yet. The thought of holding hands or kissing in public terrifies me. How do I handle this discomfort without hurting him? He thinks I may need therapy.