Profile avatar
jenthebug.bsky.social
Mom, wife, EMS dispatcher. Proudly bisexual. Not a leader or a follower, but a helper. Creativity and gratitude keep me going.
893 posts 629 followers 129 following
Regular Contributor
Active Commenter

Hug your babies tight. Take it from an ambulance dispatcher, life is fragile and your loved ones are to be appreciated. ❤️‍🩹

I can’t tonight. My brain is done and while I’m sure there are very important things being said, I’m barely comprehending words. Brain work is exhausting. Be kind to yourselves and get good sleep.

Bullet points: * My oncologist thinks a scary looking enlarged lymph node is benign (even though my tumor markers also went up) * Getting a biopsy next week because idc what vibes she’s getting, I wanna know for sure * Got a haircut * Washed my car * Grocery run * Got some writing done

Bullet points: * Slept in * Walked 1.5 miles * Took Momo to vet * (she’s a mostly healthy old dog but she needs dental work) * Found out that Momo’s so rude at the vet because she’s trying to guard me * Took it easy the rest of the day

Stopped in her tracks by a regret from years ago. She’ll dream about it tonight.

No cheating. The last saved celebrity pic on your phone is your therapist. Jihyo?! I’d be too nervous to talk, I’d faint! 😅💕

Missing someone and knowing that while they’re still here, they’ll never be the person I knew and loved again. They have changed so fundamentally that they may as well be a stranger. And because they’re an ex and I’m happily married, bringing them up would make me seem ungrateful.

Bullet points: * Short staffed at work * First time on radio without trainer’s direct supervision * Denver protest POPPED THE FUCK OFF, good job neighbors! * (but wow it was hard to dispatch ambulances downtown) * 7 hours total on radio * Phone call from a friend after work

Bullet points: * Busy day at work * Lots of character building learning experiences * My trainer and my bosses are more impressed with me than I am with myself * Snowy drive home * Showered, blow dried, and wound cared * How did it get so late?

Repost with a pic and your age 4️⃣3️⃣

Bullet points: * Checked MyChart, the bad news is still there * Dishes * Walked 1.5 miles * Actually got some writing done! * Early bedtime, just because I feel like it

I just got some bad medical news. Can I please see your pets? I’ll show you mine first.

My twin brother often appears as a cameo because I think it’s funny. Also, Owen is a gay trans man who is successful (in high school in one book and at work in another), hangs out with his friends, and enjoys a good life, because that’s the trans rep I want to see.

Celebrated Transgender Day of Visibility with a donation to Advocates for Trans Equality! transequality.org

Crap. Where is that contact? Why does this only happen on days I’m running late?

Soba stole my seat.