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jmseaborn.bsky.social
Writer of consensual D/s stories here and at @writteninkink. 44. Bald. Bearded. Tall. Grouchy.
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A friend recently told me that sometimes you have to look at yourself and say: I'm fucking hot. So I'm doing that, for one day only.

Gene Hackman was one of the great screen actors of all time. Charisma, talent, and the best voice. A legacy few can match.

Awful news about Michelle Trachtenberg.

Over the weekend @jmseaborn.bsky.social published an incredible piece about the root of "Daddy" in kink and its draw. In response, I'm republishing my own reckoning alongside a new update, 4 years after the original piece. Read it here if you wanna. medium.com/@lemonletter...

Love love love this

Last call for this. Remember, this shit isn't free. The subscription for this one is to cease posting your inspirational career insights on LinkedIn, I'm fucking begging you.

I had a really bad day today and I feel very low. The only cure is pictures of women's legs and The Lonely Island video for Space Olympics. Luckily the latter is right here youtu.be/4TICjEsvC8o?...

An excellent read, especially for those who have an aversion to the Daddy concept in kink (me). JM has always been one of the few writers who transcend it. I understand the appeal better, now: the non-paternal conveyance of safety and authority, coupled with the mind-fuckery of the word itself.

ICYMI

From me on the use of Daddy in kink, and why Andr*w T*te is a useless c*nt. www.writteninkink.com/blog/why-do-...

From me on the use of Daddy in kink, and why Andr*w T*te is a useless c*nt. www.writteninkink.com/blog/why-do-...

I’ve never really been one for “Daddy” but this made something click and maybe now I’ll be more open to it in the future.

I never really think of myself having a “daddy kink”. Currently there’s only one person I call daddy, because they love it and because they make me feel safe and cared for, like this writing says. Sometimes I feel too grown up and too in charge and “daddy” gives me a break from that.

Fascinating piece here. Not a big fan of the term but I am always a sucker for an exploration of what words mean.

"It's not baggage, it's rocket fuel." I feel like this one sentence (and the passage I took it from in the article) captures so much of what Kink does, with so many of the things we use in the relationships and sex and everything we build from them.

A tour de force from JM Seaborn! I love this. I may have been known to use the term...I have mixed feelings about it, but I cannot deny its power. There's something liberating about it.

I really loved this article from JM about the use of the word Daddy. He articulates & puts into words feelings that I couldn’t quite explain. I highly recommend that you read it if you’ve ever been called that or have called someone that. I’d love to hear your thoughts on it.

You should read this. It's interesting and well written 😊

Evening folks. I wrote about the word "Daddy". Why we (I) use it in kink, and why Andr*w T*te can take it out of his GD mouth www.writteninkink.com/blog/why-do-...

Soft kisses. With my fingers resting on your face. Gently stroking your hair. Pressing my palm lightly against your throat. Hungry kisses. Where the pace is all mine. Where I can't believe you're in my arms. Where I'm aggressive and unrestrained - if you don't keep up I might consume you.

I talked to kink experts about what's possibly going on with Kanye and his often nearly nude wife Bianca Censori. They also talked a bit about "bystander consent:" the idea that the general public has a right to *not* witness what seems to be Kanye's kink play. www.huffpost.com/entry/kanye-...

T*te is right. In all human history plane crashes have only been caused by pilots who are women. Try and find even one plane crash in which the pilot was a man. You can't. Cry harder, libt*rds.

"Sorry. Sorry. Excuse me. So sorry, I know I'm in the way. Excuse me. Sorry" - Large Man On The Tube (b. 1981) Apologising to all the people as they crash into him and hit him with their bags. 2025

5. Eye makeup

So Trump will call Zelenskyy a dictator but not Putin? Remember when the Republicans were anti-Russia? Great work everyone. It's all going well.

Things I have learned I look handsome wearing: 1. A suit 2. Glasses 3. Self confidence 4. Your cum

When I quit my job, it'll be because I heard the word "solutionising" one more time than I could tolerate.

Actively encouraging greying beard love on this app

Reminder that I don't share my personal sex life on here. The couple seems to have had quite a sexy morning. I ate a sausage roll on the way to the tube.

Lonely Island just makes me happy. I want to be their friend.

Feeling myself today, Ladz

I'm never, ever going to touch you without being absolutely sure that you want me to. Now that you know that, you're free struggle and wriggle and whimper under my weight while I overwhelm you and rip you to fucking pieces.

Well, I wrote "Daddy's fuck toy" on my sub's thigh, and she has my finger marks all over her fragile and submissive body, so yes, I have had quite a busy morning.

I miss bookmarks. Seeing that a post I'd written was bookmarked always hit a bit different.

Let's find out what turns you on by having lots of free and safe conversations. Then let's find out what else turns you on by holding your cunt in my large hand and whispering utter filth into your ear.

I'm too lazy to watch your "yoga for lazy middle aged men" targeted ads, let alone subscribe. Check mate.

How about this: you shave my head, and in return I'll bury my face so deeply into your cunt that you'll invent new swear words.

Saw the latest Cap movie, and the whole thing felt like a placeholder. I know Marvel is responding to diminishing returns by bringing back big hitters like Downey and the Russos, but I think some time away and some fresh talent might be more impactful.